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writes:hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. his name is chris and he is pretty much everything to me. we have ben dating now for 7 months and are still planning on saving our relationship by doing the best we can until im old enough to move back up there with him. the thing is.. is that i am still a senior in high school and dont graduate till next year in about 9 months so im really going through a tough time tring to figure out if i should wait 2 months when i turn 18 and then leave to be with him or should i wait until graduation and my family can see me graduate. it is the worst thing ever being away from him and i am soo worried about the things that could possibly happen between us because of time and growing apart. i miss him so much and i already know that he is the love that i want to be with forever. please help me on making the best decision. thanks.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (2 September 2008):
maybe u can stay with a relitave in your old town like an aunt or grandparent.....it may not be wise to live with him.
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reader, ashley shaw +, writes (1 September 2008):
ashley shaw is verified as being by the original poster of the question*i want to make a small note that where he is, my old high school is there where i know everyone.. and i would graduate but up there away from my family. i know for certain no matter where iam ill graduate, but where? i want to be with him as soon as i can. :(
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reader, cthulhuhugs +, writes (1 September 2008):
 I've been in similar shoes before, and trust me when I say that you should most definately get your diploma first. Not just for him, but for you. Love is an unpredictable thing, and you relationships change darastically when you share living space. You don't want to have nothing to fall back on, should your relationship not survive. Not having a diploma will enivatably cause you financial hardship and a load of stress that will affect your relationship in the future. Do your relationship a favour and make it easier for it to grow and flourish, don't add the stress of uncertianty to it. Get yourself in order, and your love life will follow.
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (1 September 2008):
Iwould wait till after graduation. A high school diploma is very important to have and it may be hard to find a job without it. it will also be helpful if you decide to continue your education. If you and your BF really love eachother thenyou will beable to be apart for the time and endure it. You can till call, email, or what ever. Maybe you can get you parents to let you see him for your bday or xmas or something. Or try to get him to visit you. long distance relationships are hard but you will be able to do it if you really love eachother.
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