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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we really truely love each other, and both feel it's time to take our relationship to the next level, he is a virgin and I am not.I was abused as a child so I never got to give my virginity away, it was taken. My boyfriend is choosing to give me his because he loves me, and i want to make sure that it's perfect for him, but I'm not sure how to do it. We've talked it over and he isnt picky about how we have sex, he's just happy that it's with me.I feel bad, maybe im living my life through him, but I would really love it to be perfect and special, something we will remember for ever.If anyone has any tips or ideas please let me know.Thank you very muchxoxox Reply to this Question
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reader, JaffaZ +, writes (31 August 2008):
 Hi,I think its great that you want to make it special for your boyfriend! My boyfriend and I are currently in a similar situation, but when we tried to have sex, he got all nervous and we couldn't do it. I think making it a bit romantic might be nice. Candles always seem to be a popular idea, and light dimmers, if you have them. Altho not too dark, cuz you still wanna be able to see each other.You should take it nice and slow for the first time, and lots of foreplay. Try to include things that he likes. Oral sex and fondling are usually good. I don't know about your boyfriend, but mine really loves having his nipples rubbed and sucked. Might be worth a try. Also, doing it on a special day that you'd remember. Like the whatever-month anniversary of starting to go out. (10-month anniversary...?), or something like that, if possible.Hope this helps!
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reader, Doodles.x.  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 Heyy.It's so sweet that your boyfriend thinks you're the one he wishes to lose his virginity to. After reading this, i don't think that there is any specific way that you ca make it special for him, and this is because he simply has you. He has decided that you're the one and the way you can make it special is to make sure you are the one he loses it too, and just make it romantic and special for the both of you.Sorry if i'm not much help hun. Good luck with everything.xx
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