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*evil Crazy
writes:This question is for both guys and girls.Have any girls here initially rejected a guy, then accepted him later on (can be a few months to a few years later)? If so, what prompted the change in decision?Also, for the guys (especially those who have experienced this before), what did you do for her to accept you eventually? Bettering yourself as a person? Establishing your career? Or do a temporary shift in focus?Please kindly share your experiences.Thanks for the replies.Devil Crazy Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Ha! Well, Devil Crazy, when I was much younger I was hopelessly in love with a girl who was a classmate and childhood friend. As we "matured" she started liking other older boys. I was miserable and crushed. She no longer even wanted to talk to me. I tried to forget about her and as we went through high school, I was involved in many other activities. When I was a junior, I was pretty popular, for what that is worth. I was a pretty good athlete in high school. All her older "friends" had graduated and were in college or just gone. She was pretty left alone. She started to call me. First it was just to talk, then she wanted to get together. I told her I would be happy to be friends, but that was all. I already had another sweetheart then. Don't feel you have to "work" so hard to make a girl like you, DC. They either like you for yourself or they don't. If they don't like who you are, then there is no reason to "like" them back.
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reader, Juanita  +, writes (31 August 2008):
Yes. At first i said no. Then thought about it, and said ok. Let me give it a chance. He's not such a bad guy. However i find it best to stick to my initial reaction and not get the guy's hopes up 4 nothing
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 girls love romantic guys..
i rejected this guy for 3 years!but at last we became a couple ..i liked him because he was always next to me,never gave up on loving me..doing crazy things for me... so don't give up...
and i you gave up already well..there are many other girls...
good luck.
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