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writes:dilema i was goin out with a realy nice guy for two year the only problem is he got lazy quit his job and became a bore i fell out of love with him but i still have strong feeligs for him we have been broke up about three month now i have a new partner who is fantastic and makes me smile my ex wont let it go he is now promising me the world and i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance as we were good together when it was good im confused because this other guy is so nice to help!!!!!do i just cut all ties with my ex and start a new life with my new guy ???
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 You have moved on, and found love with a new man. It sounds as if this man that you love treats you with the respect you deserve. Your ex promises to reform, but he caused you a lot of pain and suffering, and you're with someone who, like you said, makes you smile. I suppose there is the possibility that your ex has changed, but it's not likely. He can promise you the world, but he could be manipulating you. You don't know who you want to spend the rest of your life with, now, but you are young, don't rush into a commitment with anyone if you don't know what you want. Just take things one day at a time, and enjoy this new man. You may have some memories of happy times with your ex, but love takes time to blossom, and you will form new memories with this new guy.
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reader, Ah-ha +, writes (1 September 2008):
Hello there, Don't go back. Keep moving forward. You broke up for what sound like pretty valid reasons; you were getting frustrated. It's too easy to fall back into the patterns you were both accustom to the first time you were together. People DO change, but it probably take you not going back to him for it to really happen.-A
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reader, debrasue64  +, writes (31 August 2008):
Do not go back. I was married 7 years to a man who sent much of that time unemployed and sitting at home playing computer games. He either had an excuse (no obs, I'm overqualified, no one called back) 0r he "got" the $50,000 job with all the benefits that never started. Move on with your new man.
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