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How much sex is "just right"? Am I too sexual for this girl?

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Question - (9 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, *tuckonlove writes:

If you are really in love with a girl and you have been with her for 7 years.... how many times should you be having sex a week if you really are attracted to eachother. I really want to have sex more and it seems like only twice a week maybe three times if I am lucky. I just wanted to know how much sex is too little and how much is too much. I am I too sexual for this girl? I am just so attracted to her and I just dont have sex I really try to be romatic about it all.

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A male reader, Stuckonlove United States +, writes (14 May 2007):

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Thank you all for your answers and me and her are the best of friends and I talk to her all the time about life. I am a real considerate lover and she knows this. I think I just want her too much and I should slow the sex down alittle like you said and focus all the time on how to improve it.

Thanks again.

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A male reader, sleepyhollow American Samoa +, writes (9 May 2007):

So, you two have sex maybe 2 or 3 times a week.

Now for the hard question:

How many times a week do you two sit down or lie down together and just talk about your deepest feelings? Your day? Her day? Your goals? Your lives? And just share?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007):

No fixed rules on that one - it may be that you simply have a higher sex drive than she has.

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A female reader, aunty jane United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2007):

aunty jane agony auntthere is no right or wrong answer to this one ...there are no laws to say how many times a week you should have sex.

how does your partner feel about this? mybe you should talk to her,you may have a very high sex drive and hers may be low. comunication is the key word here......your partner may have a high sex drive too but may get rather sore .....especially if you want it all the time

have you heard the saying its quality not quantity? well are you a considerate lover or are you a wham bam thankyou mam?

try and make your partner feel so special and she will want you more

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