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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,For the past few months, me and my best friend have been in a sexual relationship.i think im falling for her, and dont know what to do..we both dont, because no-one could ever find out about this, and we have always like boys and this has just happened out of the blue. We dont want it to stop..but dont know what will happen with guys etc and boundries. I get jealous and upset when i see her with guys, it kills me...but i cant say anything.SOmeone please leave some advice!x
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reader, aunty jane  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 it sounds as if she maybe bi-sexual and you are just having gay feelings
you need to stop this now or you wont have a frienship for much longer
try going out with a boy and if its not for you then persue your girlfriend,but go out in the open dont keep secrets but be ready for all the flack that goes with it...
she may just need someone to practice on before she tries her moves on a boy
you seemed confused as to what your sexual preferance is
you need time alone to sort your own head out first
talk to your friend to see what she feels about you
it may not be the answer you were hoping for but you will have a place to start from then
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): You need to see this as some mutual frienship fun.Dont have to stop but dont see a relationship that dusnt exist as u both are hetrosexual and will date boys.U are not gay - just havin fun and exploring - dont allow it to become more in your mind.Sex is sex.Love is different and may include sex.
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