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writes:I think I am jealous of my boyfriend!!!I've been with him for 9 months now and I have never felt like this before. Just recently I've been getting jealous. Whenever we talk on the phone I feel he pays more attention his brother and sisters more them than me. But I swaer they never leave him alone. Also he got a labtop and when he told me he purchased one I got jealous and now he is always on it and it takes even more time away from us talking. We are both are going to college and I hate the fact that he has all this help to pay for it and I have to pay out my own pocket!!!! He got a check for summer school and what got me mad is he is not even going to go!!! That money could go to people like me who actually need it and are going!!!! I dont know if they way I'm feeling is just a phase or I have a problem...I know my problem is long and thank you for taking your time to read it but I need some advice thanks!!!Take Care!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): You need to chill about things in general.Sounds as tho u not happy with yourself at the moment.Dont allow that to become blamed on others.Your b/f is an individual and so r u.He should be able to have his own space as should u too.Dont take so seriously.Just remember - there is no rewind button - u dont get to do a single day again once its over - so relax and try to just enjoy every day.
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reader, Carina  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 It sounds to me as though you have a huge insecurity of your own which is making you feel like this. It also may be that your boyfriend is sometimes not being sensitive about the fact that he is better off financially than you.
What you need to do is boost your self esteem. There are various ways of doing this, but the main thing is to realise all the wonderful special things you have that make you an individual. We are all different and have different circumstances in our lives. Whatever we experience is part of our learning process and leads us on to new and better things.
Try to concentrate on yourself and look at all the good things in your life. I know it's sometimes difficult, but it's worthwhile trying to change your outlook. You'll be a lot happier and more content.
Your boyfriend is bound to spend time on his new laptop and it's a good sign that he spends time with his brothers and sisters. After all, would you want to go out with someone who was horrible to his siblings? Learn to focus more on what's happening in your life so that you don't become too dependent on him.
You might find reading some of my artciles in my blog helps you: www.happylifeliving.blogspot.com
Best of luck!
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