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writes:I'm 15, and I'm ready for sex. I've not got a boyfriend, would it really matter if I lost my virginity to a guy I know would do it with me? There's nothing else to do in this town. I'm just looking for a little fun. I just wanted to know if I should go for it or wait for that special guy? Problem is, I dont know when I'll find him; I'm way too fussy. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 20 months and I'm starting to think there's something unnattractive about me. Dont get me wrong, I know I'm not ugly. But I'm not in love with myself or nowt. I'm just having a bit of a dilemma at the momenttt. Helppp?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I'm also 15 and a virgin, and proud of it. The fact is, your body might be ready for sex, but your head and heart are not. Don't "look for fun" because there's "nothing to do." As for not having a boyfriend for 20 months... so what? I've never had a boyfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): Please don´t make the mistake so many people (myself included) make by having sex too young and with the wrong person. Because most people live to regret it later, when they meet that special person. Not to mention all the risks, such as pregnancy, STD or the simple classic: getting your feelings hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): When I was 16, I decided to find out what the big deal with sex was. I asked a friend whom I trusted, but did not love, to take my virginity. He was leaving to go to Uni, I was curious, etc. It was a nice experience. He was kind, caring, tender. I never really felt bad about myself, and he didn't treat me poorly, or think poorly of me, but...As I got older and I had more meaningful relationships, there have been times when I have regretted that my first time wasn't the wonderful, magical, emotional experience it could have been. My advice...wait until you find someone you love and who loves you.Good luck, sweetie.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): Hello, I'm no expert or anything but I can remember being 15 yrs old. I'm also not going to sit here and say you are to young to have sex because who am I to judge? but I would think it's worth waiting on someone you love and that loves you back. I think if you just sleep with any ole person you will regret it later. If you are really that bored try taking up a hobby or playing a sport. Having sex isn't the answer. Have you even thought about STDs or getting pregnant? What about how the guy you do sleep with will think about you after you've done it? What will you think about yourself?
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reader, Mrs. Adrian Wigfall  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 First of all, I'm 15. And I'm not in any rush to get out of being a Virgin. Because MOST boys like virgins. And if you're deciding to do it with a boy just because he wants to. If any pregnancy, STD, or any other thing pop up. Don't be mad at him. Cause u made the decision. Respect yourself cause nobody wont if u don't
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 May 2007):
 You are still only very young, i think you should wait for that special time, and decline this other guy. I bet he would be only to glad to have sex with you, its an easy lay for him. Wait till you find someone who wants to have sex with you because they love you.
You have got all the time in the world to meet someone, have fun, enjoy being young, and i bet you will find the perfect guy when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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