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writes:I need help! I recently broke up ( 3 months ago) with my boyfriend of 4 years because I found he was cheating on me. That is really beside the point. The point is I haven't dated in so long and last time I was single I was in college and it was easy to meet people. I recently ran into an old friend. We worked together when I was 16 and he was 18. We talked and had a few drinks. He asked me to come by the bar the next day and have a few drinks. I did and it was nice until his entire family showed up. I left feeling out of place. The next day I text him and asked how his night before went. We texted back and forth a few times and that was that. A few days later I called him and chatted for a few. This last weekend I had a few drinks and called him again (good old liquid courage). He told me to stop by and we hung out and had a blast. We ended the night with a few kisses and I left. I haven't heard from him since and I am worried. I realize that I have been the one texting and calling. I guess my question is, "Is he just not hat into me?" Guys let me know what you think about this and tell me what I should do if anything. Thanks!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
What I would do in this situation is shoot him a text or an e-mail that says:
"Hey there. I had a lot of fun hanging out with you the other night... I'd love to see you again sometime. You know my number, you go ahead and give me a call when you feel like hanging out."
Something open ended, so it puts the ball in his court. Then, I'd move on. If he calls - wonderful!! If he doesn't... well, okay. Yes, getting back in the dating game is hard, but believe me. You're young and there are tons of "fish in the sea", I promise you a good catch will come along.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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