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How can I get to the bottom of all that he's telling me? It's difficult as he lives in another state!

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Question - (9 May 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2007)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

The man I am very much in love with lives in another state and we talk four or five times a day, unless he is with a woman that is 15 years younger than him and lives near him. We have been seeing each other and talking back and forth for the last 7 years. I am his age both are near retirement. I dated this man when we were young and then went separate ways. He says he does not care for this woman but I have talked to her and she says he tells her he loves her and has bought a diamond for her which he denies.

I love talking to and being with him, but today I got very angry and told him to tell me where to drop his stuff that I have and that it was over, he hung up on me. I do not want to call him again but afraid I will, I have been a widow for several years and rather lonely and have had wonderful times with him. Help

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2007):

AskEve agony auntWho is this woman that is 15 years younger than him? What part does she play in his life? Is she a friend? An ex? A current girlfriend? What??? How did you manage to talk with her? Does he know you both talk??? Does SHE know who you are???

Get back to me with the answer to these questions and we'll try to work this out okay?

Eve

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