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Does everybody need to feel important?

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Question - (9 May 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2007)
A male New Zealand age 41-50, *onfusedsoul writes:

I feel extremely conscious about what other people speak or talk, especially those around me. Actually what i crave is some sort of attention from others so try to look for any talk that is about me. It makes me feel important as that is the feeling i have not felt while growing up in my family. So i am easily exploited by those who know this characteristic of my personality. Is it a general intrinsic need to be felt important by others that all human beings crave deeply?

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A female reader, aunty jane United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2007):

aunty jane agony auntyou will lose friends if you only want to talk about you,if you compliment others ,in turn they will compliment you....

when you find someone and you will ,they will want to know all about you and this in turn will make you feel important

dont stick to the same crowds of people try and get to know a new person each day,even if you just give a smile to a stranger or just say hello, people do respond and this will get you attention and even a conversation

its a great confidence booster

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