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51-59,
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writes:One day he, we'll call him K, tells me I'm beautiful. A few evenings later K tells me he was sad when he found out I was engaged...followed quickly by "I shouldn't have told you that."I've been having problems with my fiance, let's call him M, and I've been feeling lonely. K knows this, and one night while we were hanging out, I wanted to cuddle with him. K said it wasn't a good idea, that he didn't want to be "a home wrecker", and that he truly hoped M and I could work out our difficulties. The next day, K tells me he doesn't feel about me "as a friend" like I feel about him "as a friend". What's up with the mixed signals? Does K like me as more than a friend? I've known K for years (9 years), and he is such the honourable sort...it's hard for me to read. Any opinions?Thanks.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 K fancies the pants off you but is the perfect gentleman. He doesn't want to be a home wrecker as he says. He won't intervene or try to muscle his way in as long as you're with your boyfriend which I think is really commendable. After all he COULD have taken advantage of you when you wanted to cuddle in with him. Men like him are hard to find so you really need to sort out who you want to be with romantically. I think K WOULD get involved with you but not as long as you're tied up with M!
If you want to be with K then you need to sort your relationship out with M FIRST!
Eve
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