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writes:i think i am falling for my 45 yr old boss. i will be 24 yrs old. he is divorced and has a 10 and 13 yr old. he told me he really likes me and finds me attractive. we have been out many times together with my friends and other coworkers. i cant stop thinking about him. i don't know what to do because i am afraid of what people at work or home would say about it if we went any further. please help!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): Well - I'd say go for it and see what happens. People are right though... age gaps can be an issue. Having a relationship with your boss can pose trouble.My situation - I'm dating my boss (he's 51, I'M 34) - and it's working just fine! In fact, it's the best relationship I've ever had.
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reader, rebekkah  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 hi there is nothing wrong in falling for some1 older, i myself am 23 yet have a 42 year old partner we get on in everything. i think younger people feel more secure with some one older i mean lets face it young uns can be a pain...! ok hes ur boss but we dont walk round with stickers on our heads stating availability...i say go 4 it and be honest the worst that can happen is well...nothing and it carry on like before...
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Hi,
Why should you care what they say. He is divorced and free to do what he wants, as are you.
All I can say is ..He is a lucky bugger. All joking aside, anyone who gives you trouble, is probably jelous. So I would ignore them and go with your heart.
You must remember though if it did go wrong, it could make it difficult at work for you. But other than that,you can always get another job. And who is to say it will go wrong anyway.
Good luck Honey, and go for it. XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): quite an age gap - not nescessarily an issue but you do have to consider that in 15 yrs time you will be 39 and he will be 60. If you just want some kicks then it doesnt really matter but longer term it mite. I am 11 yrs older than my girlfriend, doesnt concern her but I worry she will trade me in for a younger model at some point.
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reader, aunty jane +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Simmer down girl and steer clear, sounds like this divorcee could be looking into entering single life again, he may tell you he likes you nd finds you attractive to see how you react, if you fall for his charms he is in a position to use you
relationships with the boss rarely work out, but if you do want to persue it maybe get a transfer so you do not have to work and have a personal relationship too
you dont say how long he hs been divorced for, he may just be on the rebound
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