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How do I let her roomate down gently??

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Question - (11 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I like to condsider myself a nice guy; but I have kind of a personal dilemma on my mind. I have really grown fond of a lady friend of mine, and would love to ask her out on a date; but her roommate (a good friend of her's and a friend of mine) has provided an unwanted situation. At a party one night, myself and the roommate ended up geting a little drunk and spending the night together. Well, she has told me since then that she likes me, and we have spent a couple more night together (no sex); but I don't like her any more then a friend. So my question here is, how should I go about letting the roommate down easy, but still have a respectable chance with the lady friend I like?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007):

Thanks for the advice, and I will see how it goes. But there are 2 things that I am thinking about though: 1) What will it do to the ladies (as in their friendship) and 2) What will the friend I like think/do when I tell her?

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A female reader, Auntie Amber :) United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2007):

Auntie Amber :) agony auntwell....personally i would tell the roomate that there is nothing more than a close friendly relationship. if that is how u feel! i would also sit down with your lady friend and tell her how u feel ,, she will appreciate it. if you have anymore problems please write back 2 me xx auntie amber xx

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