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writes: i fancy this girl, how do i know if she likes me? i talk on msn with her, i always start the conversation first. shall i not talk to her a few days and see if she tries talkin?it's way too difficult to talk at school because she is surrounded by mates and is really shy!i've asked her to go out with her mate and mine so there's 4 of us goin to make it less awkward. but somethin came up, i'm just waitin to ask again whenever i get a free day.i dont want to push her, but how do i know she's interested in goin? any ideas? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): I think if the girl isn't bothering to initiate conversations with you on msn, she is either shy, or most likely not that interested. When you were going to have that group date, did she seem keen to go? and was the thing that came up possibly an excuse so she wouldn't have to go or was it something that actually just prevented her from going? Sometimes i think girls can feel kinda pressured when a guy is interested in them but they don't feel the same way. They don't want to hurt the guys feelings by telling them they are not interested in them that way yet they also don't want to hurt them even more by leading, which makes the situation just worse. Maybe ask her out again and be really conscious with how she reacts, i think if she does like you, she'll go out with you. Hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): If you always seem to be starting up the conversation on msn that means that she isn't bothered about you. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): i know she may be shy, but chances are if shes not talking to you first at all, then she probably doesnt really care about you. im sure your a nice guy, but i hate it when guys push me and i really dont like them. the sweetest guy can make me hate them by doing that. i would just let it go its way and wait till theres a sign on her part.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 Was she interested in going out in a four last time before something came up? If she was then she probably will be again. The easter holidays are coming up. Why not make a plan for then?
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