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writes:I have been together with my girlfriend of 4 years.We have been very happy together these 4 years. My girlfriend is a very staunch christian. While i am not. Right now, my girlfriend has initiated a breakup with me..Out of nowhere.. The reason given to me was because of the differences in our thinkings.. I cannot change myself to believe the teachings of Christianity. What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): There is obviously more to this. No one would break up with someone for that reason after 4 years. Show her what you have written on here, I'm sure she'll have something to say that will make things more clear as to why she broke up with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): If she broke up with you because she's a christian and you're not then why did she go out with you in the first place. Did you not tell her that you weren't a christian and then she found out that you not christian and dumped you? If that's not the case then it seems that she's using it as some sort of excuse.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 It seems like quite a shallow reason to break up with someone quite frankly. You can be very happy with someone regardless of their beliefs but to be honest it sounds here like she's using this as an excuse to cover the real reasons. If she's tolerated your beliefs for 2 years what suddenly changed?
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