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writes: Right, I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now. All is good, but, Im a little confused about our sex life. There is a bit of an age gap between us, and to my knowledge women enjoy a romantic passoinate experience in the bedroom, but this is different.I am not complaining at all, but she gets very physical, digging her nails into me, pulling at me and biting me. I have no problem with this, but I dont know what to do!! Shes kinda taken over, and I dont know if she wants me to do the same back or if shes expects me to take over or what??I dont want to lose her, and I want us to both enjoy our sex life, so what should I do???
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (27 September 2006):
 It sounds like she's very comfortable and open with you which is awesome. Your theory is pretty right, but also most women don't want ho hum sex. We want all differant kinds of things, we don't want you to just lay there. lol If you feel comfortable with it, when she bites you, bite her back.. gently. Try things like nibbling, licking, kissing all over, running your hands not so soft and softly up and down her body. And if she's not tender headed, grab a hand full of hair by the scalp and pull her head backwards while she's on top. She'll love it!
Get it? She should like that. =) And ofcourse like everyone's said.. Talk to Her! Flat out tell her that you don't want to be the boring one in bed. Ask her what she likes and wants. Just talking about it will have you too experimenting before you know it!
Good Luck and Have fun!
~Jamie
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reader, sugapuff  +, writes (27 September 2006):
 i agree with david being comfortable discussing your likes and dislikes with each other is the key to a gud sex life!if your a lil shy ive found sexy text messages are a great way to find out new things about each others desires but remember some things are just fantasy so always check by asking if shed really like you to do what ever it is shes said!and dont worry about losing her it sounds like shes really letting go and enjoying herself maybe you should to?
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 I would suggest asking her if there is anything you can do or anything she would like you to be doing.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Ask her what she would prefer you to do
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