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writes:I really fancy my ex boyfriend still ,how can i get him to like me back , i see him looking at me . . . i wonder if he thinks what if ? ... like i do
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 Well I would try asking him when your together next if he fancies going for a walk in the park, then after doing that a few times here and there try hugging him and taking things slowly like that, if he responds from all of these and you seem to have everything just not the title then talk to him and ask him how he sees you both and tell him you are both doing and acting like you did as a couple etc.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are really close friends still , infact we act the way did when we were a couple just with out the walks in the park and hugs and kisses and those are the things i really miss
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (28 September 2006):
 If your too embarrassed to talk to him about it.. how bout having a gf do it? If not the only thing is to do it yourself. Instant messanger is a good way to communcate without being upclose and personal. Other than that, I guess just go with the flow and see what happens. But, I hope you are talking to him, as in normal talking. If you had the sort of break-up where your not talking then there really isn't any point.
~Jamie
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
Firstly you can't get someone to like you back.
But you need to talk to him and see where you stand as you won't lose anything from asking just possibly gain.
If you ask and he isn't interested in getting back together at least then you can hopefully let it go and move on yourself, if he does then you can start working towards getting back together.
Good luck :o)
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reader, smileyhugs +, writes (27 September 2006):
It sounds like you are not over him. You need to think about why you broke up in the first place? Is it something that time could heal?
You have a few options, you can approach him and be frank about it. You can try and ignore how you feel, and see if it goes. Maybe you just havent met the right person since him yet?
Who knows.. maybe you guys both want to be back together again. Be brave.. go and chat to him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): If you are too embarrassed and finding it too difficult, to be open and just ask him-then you've hit a wall, hun. This will go nowhere and you'll never find out, will you? Stop allowing your fears to rule your love life. Love means taking huge risks and it ain't for the fainthearted. If you talk to him and he says 'no' then you don't take it a personal rejection..you take it as newfound knowledge to opening news doors in your life and moving onto someone else who will appreciate your attentions, hun. So, either take the risk and ask him or leave it alone and move on to someone else. But stay strong and steady. Good luck,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): DavidLewis is right. You can find out his feelings if you just bring it up! Of course, this is much easier said than done but the two of you need to sit down and have a talk. Maybe he does have feelings for you again, but is afraid you don't, or he's wary of another failed relationship. The simplest thing you can do is ask him for his honest opinion on how he feels about you and the situation. I wish you best of luck and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI cant aski him it would be to difficult and embaressing =S =D
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Ask him and see
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (27 September 2006):
The only solution I see is to talk to him. Just because you see him looking at you doesn't mean he's thinking, "Man, I wish I had her back." He could just be looking to be looking. So, talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. The worst thing he can say is no and then you can go on with your life and find someone else.
I hope you find the answer you were looking for soon. =) Good luck!
~Jamie
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