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writes: OK here it goes. To make a really long story short, my ex and I haven't been together for almost 10 months (with the exception of sex). We were really great friends before we started dating and we were together for 5 years. When we broke up he called me four months later saying he missed me and he never stopped loving me. I thought he was wanting to get back together. However, thats not how it seem's. Recently he had asked me if I slept with someone while we were broken up. I was honest and told him yeah. Now he wont stop bugging me about him. He even wants to know exactly what we did, as far as sex wise. He sais he needs closure. I asked him what kind of closure. To where you can move on, oh wait you already did that. Then he said I cannot believe some of the things that come out of your mouth. I'm so confused!!!! He never calls back when he sais he's going to. Never! Whenever we plan something, something always better comes up. Still though he asks who im cheating on him with, even though were not together. I don't know what to do. I'm hurting bad. My heart is seriously broken, but does he still love me or is he just messing with me head?!?! Somebody please help!
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 He wants it all his own way and so far getting it.
You need to put your foot down and make this a equal relationship if you want a relationship, if you don't or he won't then you need to stop sleeping with him and try and make a friendship from this, although on many occasions it is better to make a clean break then to become friends or at least have some time away from him to properly put an end to the relationship before you can start a friendship.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): I don't like the sounds of this. You have given away all of your power over to him...sex for 10 months but you are not together? Why? He is trying to control you with his suspicious jealous act and keeping you on a string and on the down low....you've made yourself as handy as shirt pocket. Get some self respect and tell him not to let the door hit him in the ass, and then if he comes back only if it is on your terms, not his. Good Luck
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