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writes: I had this mate until recently. I've split contact with her as she's let me down yet again. I was on a date and she kept trying to force us to buy her drinks because she's able to work but doesnt want to, so she complains and literally tries to force us. Its not just that. A matter of months ago she gave her boyfriend a blowjob IN FRONT of two of her mates, I also caught her harrasing some bloke by putting her hand down the front of his trousers. She had the cheek to call him rude when he told her to fuck off! She's 41 for christs sake. Her behavier disgusts me and her lack of consideration in my social circle is appaling.My gripe is that even though she has this horrible side she was the one person I could talk to about ANYTHING. Ironic due to her worst side being what it is. I suppose I'd like to ask have I done the right thing by gettin her out of my life? Or will I miss a friend who could be one of the best councillers in the world? Which price should I pay? Annoyance and disgust or loosing the only ear willing to listen so I dont get embarrased?
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Well if she's really a good friend try to find a good way to tell her what's bothering you, maybe she'll realize what she's doing wrong. This way at leats you're trying not to lose a friend. If she doesn't listen to you then end up your friendship.
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Have you tried talking to her about her behaviour making her see what this is doing to you, while also telling her how important her friendship is to you apart from this side to her.
Depending on how this talk goes you would then need to make a decision on what you want to do regarding your friendship.
A true friend will understand what their behaviour is doing to their friendship with you but a true friend won't let this come between the friendship if she has always been like this.
Good luck :o)
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