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writes: I have been divorced from my husband for over a year now. I still cry over him and miss him so much. I have dated another man since then, fairly soon after we split up and even before our divorce was final. But, I just don't have the feelings I had for my husband towards my boyfriend. I hate being so uncertain. I miss my ex-husband and I realize now that I loved him in a way that I never loved before and fear can never love again that way. What should I do? I am torn, but I think deep down I know what to do. I think I should tell my boyfriend and end things, then see how the ex thing goes. I am not so sure though. Please let me know.
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reader, camille  +, writes (3 July 2006):
 I am just guessing that you weren't happy about he split at the time? Whether you think there's a chance with your ex or not, i agree that you should finish with your boyfriend. I personally think that if you found the 'right' man, you may be able to foregt all about your ex as you find happiness and a new life with a new man. You just haven't found that person yet. It would be amazing if there's only your ex on the whole of the planet that you can love or feel passion with and I truly believe that's not the case. A year is maybe still too soon for you to move on yet, so take your time. Good luck.
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