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writes:Ive just found out that my ex has recently bought a house with his new girlfriend. Im shocked and feel upset as I didnt realise they were that serious.My ex split up with me for her a year ago now, and at the time it was the most painful experience I had ever been through but I very slowly started to get over it and accept it. Only now when I hear this news I suddenly feel sad and a bit jealous. What makes it worse is that I wanted to move into a new home with him but he didnt want to but now he has bought a place with this girl he hasnt known for that long. The house isnt far away from my own and I really dont want to walk past it but sometimes I may have to. I dont know what to do.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (3 July 2006):
 Hi bobbyJo,
I know it is disheartening when u see someone u love with another but you shouldnt let that get to you. I know it is difficult since he is the same neighbourhood but u have to channel your feelings towards other things and people. Turn yourself around and get someone who will love you and want to live with you as he has done. He has moved on with his life and so can you. Walk past his house if u really need to and dont even let that bother you one bit.Why should you. A friend of mine who is a psychologist said that only you can make yourself happy but telling yourself everyday that you are happy and strong even when things seems down.
I have been down that road before and so is everyone. But u have to be strong.
What you should do now is go out, enjoy yourself. make more friends, attend parties and join clubs. create avenues to meet people and i can assure you that u will soon find someone who will want to be with you.
Take care dear and goodluck.
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