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writes: How long do you hv untill you can't have an abortion?i have gt untill wednesday if i am pregnant to find out weather or nt i am pregnant and hv an abortion cuz it's bin 3 mnths then and im getttin paranoid about it is it 3 mnths wot if u leave it longer??
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reader, emma09  +, writes (21 March 2009):
i was 4 months and i had a abortion im only 16 but if you are sure that you dont want your baby then i think a abortion is the right thing to do make sure you talk to some one like friends,boyfriend,family it helps you get though it because they know what you are goin though dont let anyone change you mind if they say abort it and you really dont want to then no one is making you its your choice! if you are that sure then no one will change your minda abortion only takes about 10 mins but you will be asleep,and then you will wake up in abit ov pain but they give you pain killers so you will be fine i was really scared but it ent that bad trust me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): well i needed the anser to this thanks people
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): Just think, would you rather make the people who are desperate and who are more than willing to give your child a loving home with love and attention, and who cant have kids and would rather adopt your child. wouldnt you want to make them happy. Its not a hassle a for them at all not one bit. They do all that with pleasure and enjoy doing taking care of everything just to have there child. Its not "a problem in this world" to give your child to somebody who is more than happy to take care and raise your child. Seriously... Or would you rather live in guilt or shame because you had an abortion. The baby might not remember the abortion, but I believe that they do feel pain just like any one of us who has a heartbeat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): Hello, I have expierence. I got pregnant after just one time of having sex and 2-3 weeks after, I went strait to the doctor and yes, your baby (not a fetus or embryo) does already have a heartbeat that early after conceiving!!! Dont believe me, ask your gyno. Please dont do it. Anyone who has a heart and who IS in there right mind wont go through with an abortion! I just want to let you know that its serious business getting an abortion done and that it does carry mental and physical consquences! bad consequences! I hope you understand. Oh and the pictures that you do see of an abortion or the stories you hear, are from medical hospitals/clinics and/or psychiatrist or from cancelor websites and not from christian sites! The fact is, you are not for certain what the outcome of this is going to be for you. You could decide to go through with the abortion and have some serious medical problems. You could hemmoriage, not be able to concieve EVER again, and you might run into a man that threatens to divorce you because he cant have children with you because of your poor decision, you will expierence severe pain when you are menstrating or having sex. There is just too much risks involved. Even if you feel ok mentally about the decision you may still have physical problems and that going to get you to start regretting what you did and then start having mental problems later because of it. Its going to get your mind going. You dont know for sure what the outcome is, you got to ask yourself this, are you willing or ready to put your body, your future at bad risk both physically or mentally? or would you rather know that if you do decide to have the baby, that in the end you'll know that you'll be healthy physically because your not risking yourself and mentally knowing that you gave your child a good home to people who trully care and who will love your child or whom maybe will even let you have some sort of relationship to your child if you wish? The fact of the matter is, is that your future, you life is based on the decisions you make weither its getting an abortion or doing anything else, whatever you do will affect you in longrun wether its good or bad. Think hard and seek help from a loved one. God Bless You!
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reader, dancing_boo +, writes (5 July 2006):
 Contray to some of the other postings, i beleive that an abortion can be the right choice for an indivdual in accordance to their own life.Do me one favour! Dont google abortion pictures...there are many christain followers who write the most dreadfull stuff, with the intention of putting you off. At the end of the day, deep down, you will know what is the right choice to make.I had a medical abortion, which causes a miscarriage. You can get this option up to 9weeks i think. Beyond that it goes on to 'early surgical abortion' and so on. Up to 24 weeks i think you can abort. But obviously the further pregnant you become, the more severe the proccedure is.I looked up pictures of unborn fetus's and abortion pictures and it did me NO good. Yes, after 6weeks the fetus gains a heart beat, but do you remember back to when you were 6weeks old?My opinion, which may be contray to others but we are all entitled to ones belief, is that theres are too many children in this world ALREADY who need the proper care, love and security, and thats with adoption parents...why make this world more troubled? If you are certain that having ababy is not the right choice for you, or for the near future, and dont want to go through 9weeks of pregnancy to be left with the emotional drama attached to birth or giving up a child, then i feel abortion may be the right choice for you.But its your choice! Just promise me you will double up on protection for the future! Abortion is not right, its the termination of an unvoiced child...but speak to a councilor, discuss your concerns...and go from there!Best of luck...If you need an advice from someone who has experienced such a proccedure...mail me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): My opinion is if you dont want the responsibilty of having a child dont put yourself in that situation. I personally disagree with abortions however, I also feel adoption isnt the road to go down iether. Both of these things come with emotinal upset which if you aren't ready for a baby I dont feel you would be mature enough to deal with these emotions in both present and long term. I honestly hope things work out for you though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): This is so sad. I dont believe in abortions. If you cant go through with raising a baby, give the baby up for adoption. Did you know that at just two weeks of conceiving, the baby already has a heartbeat! I know that you're in a tough situation here, but abortion isnt the answer. If you make this decision, its going to haunt you for the rest of your life! There was this one girl here on this site who asked for help on how to cope with her getting an abortion. She couldnt deal with the bad decision that she made and she wished she had never done such a thing! Believe me...Its unhealthy physically and mentally to do this! There are plenty of people or programs that you could join that help people like you. People who are willing to pay for the hospital bills..etc. just so that they could adopt the baby or have the baby adopted out to a caring family. Some even let you be in contact with the baby in the future if you wish. Do me a favor and google abortion pictures and procedure and I bet that that will get you to change your mind, I mean if you have a heart. They also show stories of people who've had the procedure done. I hope you decide to give the baby up for adoption instead. May God Bless you and your undborn child if you for sure pregnant. And if your arent pregnant, be much careful next time in preventing an unwanted pregnancy!!! Good Luck.
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reader, uonlyliveonce +, writes (3 July 2006):
 u can have them up to 5months if you've got a good reason for it but it gets more complicated the longer u leave it
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (3 July 2006):
 Get a pregnancy test today. It's simple: go to the chemist and buy one. Then take it home and use it. Then you'll know if you're pregnant. If you've been hanging around, stressing over a possible pregnancy for three months, then you can actually throw your own cycle off.
It's possible to have an abortion in the second trimester, but it's more complicated than an early abortion and a bit more risky, so don't delay. Denial is not a solution to this problem!
Go on. Go.
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