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writes: i got very drunk one night and ended up trying to kiss my boyfriends friend. however i don't remember this becuase i was drunk. i love my boyfriend and desperately want to get back with him. please give me advice on how.
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reader, carys +, writes (4 July 2006):
carys is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou very much for your advice and i will definitely keep you posted. I saw him yesterday and we got on really well, so i am going to give him some space but let him know that i am here when he's ready or if he is! Thank you so much i feel a lot better, just hope your advice works! Thanks!
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (4 July 2006):
 Hey there petal,
I disagree with 'happylife's comment that you blew it, but hey, everyone is entitled to their opinion!
I did an even more disgusting thing than you when I was drunk and beat my BF of 5 years to a pulp - he was covered in bruises for weeks, had a black eye, fat lip, ripped shirt etc, it caused him to question 'us' and it took him weeks to get over it BUT HE DID.
If your boyfriend really loves and understands that alcohol can really f*ck people up (learn from this babe, don't EVER drink like this again) then he will find it in his heart to forgive you.
Give him space and time, don't hound him, keep reassuring him that it was a crap mistake that won't happen again. You will have to say to him that you will PROVE to him over time that you won't drink like that again and you hope that he can trust in you and your love again.
Best of luck, keep me posted babe xxx
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reader, happylife +, writes (3 July 2006):
I think you really blew it! Just to share a man's prospective, if my girlfriend ever did the same (as you did), I would never give her another chance. The reason that I would not consider getting back with her is that I would never be able to trust her every time she went out with her friends and had a drink. In addition, I wouldn’t expect her to quit drinking forever either, even if she swore that she would quit drinking. Therefore, I would say that you really blew it. The only thing you can do at this point is to learn from your mistake and recognize that drinking too much does have serious consequences for a relationship and make sure that you don’t repeat this mistake in your next relationship.
Sorry that I did not have a better solution, however, I really think that you would be wasting your time trying to get him back.
Good luck!
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