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writes: I really like this one girl, And I'm going to ask her out soon. But what I really fantasize about is giving HER oral sex. I couldn't really care less about her doing anything to me (Although I certainly wouldn't mind it :D ) Is this OK? Or am I wierd? Do women like reciving Oral sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): You are not weird, you are male and you are human.
I don't know if every male has such vivid fantasies about someone they have feelings for but I have to ask, is this respectful to her?
I may be naieve in saying so, but there is a fine boundary for me and how a male perceives me. If we have dated for sometime and developed a close and trusting relationship; then yes, I am flattered by such admissions of being the main player in his fantasies.
I think what the real issue is; is you are worried if your desire of oral sex is an appropriate way of expressing yourself with a female you like.
Sex is an intimate act that instills feelings of bonding; and promotes a relationship.
When you and your partner are doing such an act; then do the oral sex. Just be aware of her response; does she seem to like it-is it foreign? Is she comfortable? Tell her what you would like to do? At this point in the relationship; you should be trusing in one another.
I wouldn't rush the sexual intamacy.
Some woman do in fact like oral sex. What remains to be seen; to you- is does she like it? *shrugs*
Date her and don't preoccupy your mind with the sexual things you want to do to her- get to know her and appreciate her for who she is. Respect her first.
Things will work out when two people are working on making it work.
Best of luck
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (18 July 2006):
 A lot of women like oral sex, but just as many do not. It is a matter of personal taste. So just get to know her first and then see where that leads!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): Yes, yes, YES!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): You're like me and get more pleasure to give than recieve. I can definitely say that recieving oral is AMAZING
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reader, sxyredhdnc +, writes (18 July 2006):
 let me just say maybe you should focus on asking her out first and see where it goes and not focus on the sex part so much.sex will come in due time and be worth the wait.now to answer your question,yes the majority of women do like receiving oral sex there are those few who don't so keep that in mind.try dating her for awhile before you hit her up for sex then that way maybe you can have a chance to talk about what she likes and doesn't like first before you do the deed.Good luck
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