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writes: With my b/f for over a year--he has his own place but stays with his mom at her house close by--I guess to help her out if she needs and just to be there.This has never happened--we were talking on the phone at 11pm and he mentions he might have to go to his apartment tonight b/c he could not find parking on the street and he had to park in the driveway of his mom's house which would be blocking his neighbor's car and they leave earlier in the morning than he does.Maybe I am being paranoid b/c I do notice everything--but am I wrong for thinking he is going to be there with another girl and that's why he is going there? I asked for him to call me before he says goodnight--and he did..but he could have called me on the drive over as well to talk a little more...but we did talk for almost an hour or so before so maybe he just didn't want to do that.Am I reading too much into this? If he was cheating--wouldn't he just not tell me anything, pretend to be at his house and say goodnight earlier..something along those lines? Am I worrying too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (18 July 2006):
 I think on the facts you have avalible it is a very long stretch to assume he was with another girl. Just because something has never happened before does not mean the circumstances wont arise where it will happen. His explanation sounds plausible to me and maybe he just fancied a night with his own space, something that would also be understandable.
If you are insecure in the relationship then that is something that obviously needs to be addressed and you shouldnt beat yourself up for it, there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. Hope that helps, take care.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (18 July 2006):
I think on the facts you have avalible it is a very long stretch to assume he was with another girl. Just because something has never happened before does not mean the circumstances wont arise where it will happen. His explanation sounds plausible to me and maybe he just fancied a night with his own space, something that would also be understandable.
If you are insecure in the relationship then that is something that obviously needs to be addressed and you shouldnt beat yourself up for it, there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. Hope that helps, take care.
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