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writes: I'm starting to fancy a friend, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin a friendship but at the same time I don't want to let the oppertunity disappear. What do you think? What should I say/do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (18 July 2006):
 This is tricky. I would personally say something. I mean you can't walk around feeling like this. How good a friend could you actually be when someone else is with him and they are around you. That jealuos bug will bite you. Even if it doesn't amount to anything at least you tried. You don't want to live on as him as a friend and always think "What if?" Thats hard to live with especially seeing the person you love with someone else and you never even tried.
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reader, tux +, writes (18 July 2006):
 What you are in is a big dilemma that many people find themselves in... a quandary is more like it. Yes it could work the best for you.. or it can be the worst for you.. or you may even try it out and end up just okay.. You have to listen to your heart on this.. You have to determine if they are better as a friend.. or better as a lover. but keep in mind often if it doesn't work out there can be awkwardness.. You have to determine if it's worth it.
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