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writes:I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now. And he's told me previously that he thinks I'm pretty, and that he'd like to feel me up. A local club holds an under 18's night, where he goes regularly, my friends go too and I'm planning on joining them for the next one that is on.Most boys and girls have kissing competitions with their friends, who can kiss the most people, and the boy that I like told me that he was having one with his mates.I asked if he'd kiss a few of my friends. One he said that he would probably kiss, another was an outright no. I asked him if he'd kiss me, and he said that he didn't know. What should I do? Does he want to, and is just too shy to tell me? Or is he trying to be polite and just say no? Also, WHAT DO I WEAR??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): Kissing may be innocent but it still carry's with it the threat of an std or virus. So do practice some restraint.
I think that he came out and told you he would like to feel you up clearly demonstrates that he just wants sex and not a commited relationship. He doesn't respect you the way you deserve.
I'd be careful.
I also want to mention I liked what Granny had to say.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (18 July 2006):
 This guys sounds like he's only into using girls not looking for anything serious. he all about have fun with girls (meaning more then one) so don't expect him to change for you.
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reader, Granny +, writes (18 July 2006):
 Be careful, please. A lot of kids think this is a fun thing to do. If that is what you want and you like the idea, then you go for it. You can have an evening getting snogged and touched up by strange boys, none of whom want a relationship with you. They just want an evening touching willing girls. But somehow, I have the impression it's not really your thing. You like this boy, but he hasn't shown much interest or respect in you personally if he would let his friends kiss you, and is not sure he even wants to kiss you himself. But he wants to feel you up, doesn't he?
So if you want to be groped, wear a short skirt and enjoy it. If you want some respect, wear a suit of armour. If you don't like the idea of being used as an object, don't go.
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reader, sarah_06 +, writes (18 July 2006):
hi this is sarah here what it sounds like to me that he is messing your around, if he wanted to kiss you he would have jumped to the oppertunity he is not worth it you will find someone much better. lads aren't worth the hassel trust me i no.
i think you should where something that will make him wish and know he is messing with the wrong girl. just look after yourself and make sure you cover up your drink and make sure you have someone with you at all times be carefull love sarah xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): hi this is sarah here to me it sounds like he is a jerk, if he realy liked you he would have jumped to the oppertunity to kiss you. no lad is worth the hassel he will end up breaking your heart or messing up your head.
i think you should wear something that will make him wish he never messed about with you make him druel. make sure you be carefull and watch your drink at all times never be alone.
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