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I don't know whether to meet my cousins after what happened before...

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Question - (3 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

should i meet my cousins or not.A year ago i found my long lost cousin who i had never met before.well i did something bad and had a affair with his son,which i finished because he was married and i realised he was using me.Now my cousin wants me to meet his sister but she knows nothing of what went on and she is bound to bring his name up,do i met them or give it a miss.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006):

yes my cousin does know as it was his son,that i had the affair with.

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A female reader, AgonyAuntsonEBAY +, writes (3 January 2006):

AgonyAuntsonEBAY agony auntHi there. Well done for finishing the affair with the married man. Does your cousin know what happened? Did you get on well with your cousin? Do they live near by? Do you have a supportive family already?

How would you feel if this new cousin found out about what happened? Your cousin must like you if he wants you to meet more of his family.

You are in control and the decision is yours - just weigh up the pros and cons and remember you can always say you are a bit busy at the moment - can you decide later in the year when things have quietened down.

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