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writes: Ok guys, another really fun q!!Ok, I'm 16, and there's a guy I like.I think he likes me too but I don't know, because I've had to go into his classroom a few times, and every time I popped in there, he was looking and grinning. Now, I don't know if that's my mind playing tricks on me,or if he likes me.What should I look out for? And how could I really stand out to him?I'm an overweight emo/skater..thank you so much!!!!xxxxxxxxx
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (4 January 2006):
 My opinion,
Don't degrade yourself, have confidence, there is nothing more attractive than a girl with confidence.
Women tend to put themselves down for no apparent reason.
If he smiles at you smile back.
Invite him out when you go out with your friends, flirt! Body language speaks louder than words. Go to a loud place, like a pool club that way when you speak to him you have to lean over close to him, wear really nice perfume, my favorite would be the Lacoste Pink, it's not to strong but it's sensual!
Then let nature take its course!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006): First of all, why would you label yourself like that? Your so much more than an emo/skater. Maybe thats one thing, dont feel insecure. Now you might think im not insecure?! But when you label yourself you end up doing just so, a way to fit in. In no way am i say that your an outcast..because honestly i dont know you. But by saying emo/skater i still dont know you. Think of yourself more of a personality ( sense of humor, clever, optimistic ) that happens to shop at PacSun and listen to emo-type music. Express yourself farther.
And good luck with the guy! When i like a guy I kind of tend to dart my eyes when i see him and show off in front of him. And trust me, trying to show off always end up in a disaster...and i should know. So sorry about that, I cant really give any advice on that one. Good luck though! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): You should really try to be his friend then take it from there wait for him to make the first move not to mention your sixteen there will be so many more guys don't rush it or dwell on the first one. good Luck!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (3 January 2006):
To stand out, just smile at him and be friendly and look open for conv,- don't stand with your arms crossed as that signals you are unhappy and are telling people to bakc off.
Everytime you walk past him, look him right in the eye and smile.
Is he a outgoing type of person? if so you could perhaps just do this and hhopefully he will catch on and start up a conv which could then lead to him asking you out, but if hes not, maybe your gona have to make the first move! or atleast say hi.
The key is taking mini steps, baby steps. Day 1- smile, day 2- look right into his eyes and smile, day 3- say hi and smile, day 4- say hi how are you and smile, day 5, stop him iin the hallway and ask what hes been up 2 or what class he has next. take it little steps at the time so it wont seem so big to actually go up and have a conv with him. and before you know it, you 2 might be an item!
good luck doll and remmeber, to love yourself, if you see all the good things in yourself then other people will too!
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