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writes: Hey people, I don't know if you can help, but here goes. I am going out with this really amazing guy but there an age gap. I'm 16 and he's 20. Does that matter to parents, because my mum, dad and sister wont let me date because I am the clever one who has the good grades and they don't want me to fail like my sister has. But I know I won't fail. What do I do? What do I say? Should I tell them am seeing someone and that I'm not stupid like my sister because my exams are the most important thing to me? What do you think? I need help bad style. helpppppp please x x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): 4 god's sake no......yer doin fine, the malarcky of everything stands in your way.....if yer not a quack, u'll be fine.....g luck!
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reader, jennigirl +, writes (4 January 2006):
Well first how much age gap is there between ur parents?...ur 16 old enough to make your own decisions...tell your parents if they arent happy with it dont freak out with them lay ur ground...but remember parents are more important then guys....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006): listen, im 16 my boyrfiend is 24 gettin divorced and has a child, were happy and my mams accepted it. all i know is i love him,, forget everything else xxxx
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reader, jaime +, writes (4 January 2006):
If you really like this boy then the age difference doesnt matter! There are some couples out there who are more than 20 years older than the other! Yes i think you should tell your parents, and yes your parents will be concerened about the age difference but its really not a big age difference if you think about it! whats the age gap between your parents? They are in love arent they? well if they dont like the idea, bring your boyfriend round for dinner one day and let him get to know your parents because if you really like this boy, thats the best thing for it. Good luck x
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reader, Joe  +, writes (3 January 2006):
tell them and make sure you let them know that if the relationship gets in the way of your education you will either break up or take a break from him until things have calmed down
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): im the same im 14 and going out with a 17 year old i dont think 4 years is that big a gap it depends on what the fella is like really tell your ma and da your intitled to have a life as well as your sister and they should want to let u even more since your doing so well in your grades!
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