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writes: I have a big problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 yrs. He is the father of my children. The thing is "we don't have sex" at all. Its been 8 months. We are both attractive people. I'm 25 he's 26. He doesn't touch me anymore. When I try to be affectionate he pushes me away. It really doesn't seem like he's cheating cuz he's always where he's suppose to be and always answers my calls. He tells me cuz of the situation were in. (We still live with my parents) but I think its bull. How do you not touch the person you love for 8 months? Especially if you're a man. I've had different thoughts like maybe he's gay but he's too manly. Please help me. It's a new year and I want to know where I stand in my life so I can move on. It's too embarrassing to tell friends; that's why I came here. Please please help me.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (3 January 2006):
Hi there,
Well if the real problem is that its the living arragnment, then why dont you suggest, you get your parents to babysit your kids one night and you 2 go out and stay in a motel or something...? then see if he wants to do it. You really need to talk to him. Ask him ok so if it really is the living arragment then does he want to do something about it, or is he just gona put up with it?
Also I think you need to explain to him your feelings that you feel hurt that he doenst show any affection. Is he the type of guy to be afraid of public displays of affection, even just huging or kissing you in front of your parents? then maybe you need to wokr a way to over come that. if not then you should ask him why doesnt he show u affection like that as well.
Let him know that its hurting you and you might feel even rejected by that. See what he has to say.
Relationships are about compromising.
goodluck and I hope you get this sorted out. sorry if i was not much of a help
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