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I feel like them 2 are going places and not with me

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Question - (9 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2006)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi ,

I have 2 friends that are my best friends, it is just normally us 3 who hang with each other. One of my best friends fancys the other and the other feels the same. One has started asking the other out and they are being together and i feel insecure. I feel like them 2 are going places and not hanging with me. Most of the time he talks about her and im just left alone most of the time what can i do? It makes me feel sad and alone.

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A female reader, Astrid Spain +, writes (9 December 2006):

Astrid agony auntYes I agree with David darling u can also join a team or an excursions group or something so u can meet new people and move on

good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2006):

I know how this feels because it happened to me. its hard to take but they have a right to see if things can work for them together. they probably do not realise that it hurts. say to which ever one of them that u are closest to how u feel and expand your circle of friends that is what i did...

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2006):

David Lewis agony auntIf they are together as a couple, then it would be better if you let them do their own thing. If you was with your girlfriend and one of your friends were always tagging along, how would you feel?

I am sure if you gave them the space, they would individually make time for you.

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