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writes:How many women would you say is an acceptable amount to have slept with by the time you are in your late 20's? My new boyfriend has just told me he's slept with over 100 and it's driving me mad! Should I leave him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): Well hun, first do you believe him? and If he is the 'ONE' why is it worrying you so much ?!?
You're lucky you have a boyfriend!!! If you love him let it go if you don't I'm afraid you'd better just leave him.
Ask yourself do you LOVE him?
Do you want to stay with him, Is he the best thing in your life or is it time to let go?
I hope that helped
Good luck hunny
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): Why do you want to leave him? Please do not tell me it's because he slept with 100 different women. I mean, that's such a weak cause for separation. If you feel gross about it, fine, go ahead, leave him. Otherwise, that's a minor issue of his past - not exactly the holocaust. However, like b3x had mentioned, if he doesn't have STD's and he treats right, then hey so...?
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reader, bonym +, writes (9 December 2006):
 To me there is no acceptable amount, I mean I find it absurd that someone in their twenties has slept with over 100 women, its a case of pure uncontrolable lust. I would not sit here and say that "5" sexual partners is ok, but "17" isnt, to me, the past should just be the past, but just dont allow yourself to be on the list of conquests. Lets hope that he finds something in you that is special and I hope your relationship will work out.
Take care. xXx
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reader, b3x +, writes (9 December 2006):
 It doesn't really mater how many really, I guess its all down to personal opinion, judging by your question I think you find this a little unacceptable?
My ex was in his late 20's and he confessed he had slept with over 100 ladies, at fist I admit I was a little shocked, as I only slept with 3 guys! But the thing is, its his past, what matters in his past shouldn't matter, its his future you should think about, your his future!
I eventually got over my ex slept with so many ladies, we didn't split up over that, I guess as long as he is not riddled with STD's or anything and he treats you like a proper lady, then who cares? x
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