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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girls my age think I look too young, but will I be asking for trouble to go out with a 15-year-old?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I'm 19 and I've became good friends with a girl who is 15. I know she fancies me. I really like her back and we have so much in common. We are perfect for each other. The only thing is the age difference is holding me back from asking her out. I'm worried what other people will ... (110 words)

How do I get my ex-fiance back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - How do I, as a female, get my ex-fiance back? He broke things off only because my sister and mother didn't trust him. Recently, he asked me to call him, but I don't know what to say. I still love and really miss. -aprilstrongfemale... (49 words)

Is this guy playing me or does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - i have started to like my mate's boyfriends brother who is single, he lives about 3hours away from me but he comes home to his parents most weekends- we have becum good m8s the last couple of months- we txt sumtimes but he hates the fone he barely uses it- im always the one to ... (258 words)

I need to decide..do I give up my bf because he's using me or go for the other guy and risk hurting the bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - hi, im in a bit of a muddle... ive been going out with this guy for just over three months, and today when he fingered me, he made me bleed. i know that it can happen because ive read about it. but it came as a shock really, and im so confused because i met this guy when i was ... (274 words)

I'm paranoid that every girl I date will cheat on me...how do I stop thinking this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - i have just been dumped by my girlfriend and she says she needs me to prove to her that i can change. i am very paranoid over things, i admit there is no reason to be paranoid over this girl cheating on me. i have been hurt by every girlfriend i've had because they have all ... (75 words)

We were having our share of problems, but were working on them, until his mum came along...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - My problem is that I had been seeing someone for about 9 months. Everything was going great but I admit it was my fault that things got out of hand and I started to push him away but we worked it out. Then finally we started having arguments and then over two weeks ago we broke ... (142 words)

When I call my gf, she doesn't sound happy to hear from me..am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I am a mature guy, but I met my girlfriend nearly a year and a half ago. we grew from friends into what I thought was a great relationship 6 months into our friendship. How little did I know, she nearly ended it with me 6 months later as I had been making her life a misery and ... (313 words)

I got beaten up by an ex bf and it's affected me..I can't trust anyone. Will I ever be able to have a happy relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - OK, this is a hard topic for me to put, there isn't really a catorgory for it. I don't know where to start but i dated one of my friends earlier this year as a rebound from my ex who im still not over, my friend suddenly changed dramatically and cheated on me i ended it even ... (372 words)

How do I make this man happy so that he will always love me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I am a young lady who just met a guy whom after a long time friendly friendship, proposed to me. I said yes, so we now have a relationship to manage. my quesion is, how do i make him happy so that he will always love me... (48 words)

I want to date him, but he thinks I'm a slut because I sent him dirty messages. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 December 2005 (F)

- Hey Folks See, there's this guy who I like and want to get to know. Only trouble is that he thinks I'm a slut as when I am drunk I tend to send him dirty messages. and now he has made it pretty clear that he is only interested in sex. BUT, I haven't actually slept w... (124 words)

I thought we were dating..but now she doesn't answer my calls or emails! What should I do do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've started to date this girl two weeks ago and we knew each other from high school. I had just graduated as she was entering her freshmen year. We recently became in contact and she remembers me from band as she was in band to because I came back to help the... (599 words)

My bf of 4 years doesn't give me what I want..do I give him an ultimatum or start seeing another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Ive been dating one guy for 4yrs. One year we actually lived together, but it drove me crazy; the lies, the kids arguing, ..... Now we live apart but still see each other almost every day. My kids love him. I love him. But he is not giving me what I want. Do I give him the ... (80 words)

I pay his cell phone bill and he uses it to phone other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6929 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 yrs. Really started off strange but we're still together or should I say I am still together. Newest problem comes in, I pay his cell phone bill because one, it's in my name. But I recently found out that he calls other girls ... (95 words)

I love him but he thinks we're friends. He lives on the other side of the world. Do I hop a plane and go tell him my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I have really strong feelings for a man who lives on the other side of the world. I havent seen him for a few months now, but when I am with him I feel there is a chemistry between us and I know Im not imagining it, the last time I saw him we where never alone there was ... (236 words)

I dated my married boss and now he's not coming into work. Do you think he's avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - HI all! Ok i completely screwed up over xmas, temptation got the better of me and i went with someone i shouldnt have, basically because we work together and he's more or less me boss and married. When we got together that night i told him to come into work this week. Ive ... (219 words)

Did expressing my love for him scare him off? We spoke again but he still seems distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Okay. I was the one who told her boyfriend that she loved him but didn't get the same in return. Well, just a small update. I talked to him last night. I gave in and called him first but he did call me back again last night. Anyway, I told him that I had hoped that I ... (132 words)

I want to get into another relationship but fears of slipping up, hinders my progress. Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - i need to get into another relationship, but the fear of slippery in my first one is hindering my progress. how do i go about it? how do i get a perfect match cos i have a tender heart. and how am i going to get her if i found any worthy by appearance? finally, whic techniqu... (74 words)

She's unsure of her feelings for me. It's very confusing as to whether she wants to date or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I have know this girl for nearly 2 years. At first it was just a really close friendship but after a while i wanted more than that. I got feelings for her that i have never had for anybody else before. When i first told her about these feelings she seemed happy. She said she ... (319 words)

He dumped me by text and now I don't know what to think...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

30 December 2005 (F)

- I met a guy at a college party three months ago. It was so obvious that he liked me but at the time I wasn't sure if I liked him as I had just split with my last boyfriend. He gave me his number but I didn't give him mine. I called him three days later and arranged to meet up. ... (629 words)

Losing my mind over my relationship... My girl says she wants "a break"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for the past one-year. She is 28 and I am 31. The relationship was great, except for a few minor quibbles. A couple of times I was jealous – once when some male friend of hers grabbed her at a party, and some other random incident at a ... (701 words)

I'm worried my online friend will return to his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - hi i met someone online, 5 years ago but that time we couldnt meet cuss he wasnt ready for a true relation yet. so he moved on and met his gf, but we carried on chatting as friends.but i also had a bf but we broke up. when we were chatting he told me too that he broke up with ... (125 words)

What does the winking, wedding-ring-wearing, man mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 December 2005 (F)

- There is this man i have been friendly with for the best part of a year. Though we have never specifically met up alone. when we see each other he will be as friendly as ever, even giving me a touch on the shoulder or back whenever i've seen him recently and calling me ... (127 words)

Mum just can't come around to the idea of my dating guys, and I'm almost 18!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I'm 18 in less than a month and my mum still sounds weird about me dating. I've met a guy I really like but I'm too shy to tell my mum straight out because I know she'll be angry. I've dropped hints like putting his picture up and talking about him a little bit. She suddenl... (196 words)

Still getting over being dumped by my ex, I worry that a new guy might be just as bad...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and just getting over a hard break up with an older man who lied a lot to me. It's been a year but everything is still fresh in my mind. I've met a new guy and he's my own age but I'm worried that he'll only be interested in sex. If I do agree to start a relationship ... (166 words)

I'm not interested in the guy I think is going to ask me out. But my best friend is. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - This problem is real long so I will just sum it up. There is this guy that likes me. He is always saying things and it's pretty obvious he wants to get with me. I do not have the same feelings (I am into someone else). My best friend is in love with the guy that likes me. He h... (152 words)

My married lover feels sorry for his wife and won't leave because of the kids. How do I break off this affair?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for ten years. I was twenty four then, and a student in his torts class. He says he loves his wife, but he loves me more. Because of their two children, he has to stay with her (he also feels sorry for her, evidently, I am ... (118 words)

How is my boyfriend going to know when he hits the right spot during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I have a great boyfriend that has been able to make me orgasm everytime manually. Now we're finally starting to have intercourse so how can he do it now? I know he has to find my spot, but how and when he does, how does he keep hitting it? He's willing to do whatever, but where ... (63 words)

He won't go out with me because he used to date my stepsister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6932 days ago

30 December 2005 (F)

- I'm in love with a guy that used to be with my ex stepsister's sister. In fact he lost his virginity with her! When they were going out together I liked him when I first saw him. I liked him, it's just she got there first. I was too scared; I didn't realy know him. She was ... (307 words)

My ex says the child is mine, but it can't be! And I can't afford a paternity test.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My Ex recently has told me she is pregnant with my child, however at the time she should have conceived I was having a gay relationship many miles away. I don't dare ask if it really is mine, and I can't afford the test nor am I willling to ask her abou... (76 words)

I trust my girlfriend, I just don't trust my mates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I get very jealous when my girlfirend goes out with my friends. I am 2 sets of friends and when I'm with one and my girlfriend is on a night out with the others, involving many males, who I know may/have made a move on her. I get really angry. I trust her completely though. ... (107 words)

A question of timing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - How often do most couples in committed relationships talk on the phone?... (12 words)

Dream interpreter needed. Why did I dream about a guy who turned away when I kissed him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I need some help decodeding my dream. It probably sounds dumb but......... In my dream I leaned in to kiss a boy he turned his head. Then I woke-up. It was odd becouse during the whole dream I couldnt see his face clearly. This is realy bothering me. Pleas help!!!... (51 words)