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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend pays me no attention and now I'm falling for someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - I am with a guy who pays no attention to me and I am falling for somone else but I can't tell my boyfriend that. My friends tell me that my boyfriend isn't the one for me. Can you help me? ... (44 words)

I'm 18 and in my last year of school, so can anything happen with the teacher I know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6890 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Ok, I am 18, and in the last year of sixth form. I am very very very good friends with one of the teachers at our school, he has never taught me and I know him through helping with school productions, he is 29. I really think Ive fallen for him. He has never taught me, and I... (176 words)

Is my boyfriend going off me... or are his folks keeping him on a short leash?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Is my boyfriend going 'off' me or avoiding me? I'm really confused. My boyfriend is an 18 year old muslim and our relationship is a secret to his parents, they are VERY against interracial relationships. We met at work so we see each other a lot on a day to day basis. then ... (219 words)

Gay porn for straight guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Do any men who consider thmselves 100% hetro ever enjoy looking at gay porn??? It would be great to get some honest feedback to help settle a little debate going on here. ... (39 words)

I use a lot of KY jelly and baby oil when having sex-can it cause damage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i have to use ky jelly and baby oil a lot when making love to my partner, do u think it could cause any damage over a long period of time, i'm getting pains in my belly a lot.... (39 words)

Been thru a lot with my ex-then he dumped for another woman. Now he wants her to meet our kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years, we have two children together. we've been through so much together he's been in prison and we lost a child. he cheated on me 4 times (that i found out about). About 2 months ago he started staying out all night and not telling me ... (111 words)

Is his quick attachment to me, related to his break up with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - I am seeing an old friend who has just recently gotten out of a long term relationship. It seems like he is trying to move into Boyfriend status very quickly. His girlfriend left out of town with his 2 kids less then a month ago. He respects that I want to wait. I don't feel ... (225 words)

He meets his ex gf for intimate dinners-he says I shouldn't be upset! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I've been in a commited relationship for 10 months. My problem is my boyfriend meets with his ex for 1 on 1 occasional dinners exhcanging birthday/Christmas presents which upsets me a lot. I've explained to him that although I trust him this situation isn't ... (108 words)

She sent me an e-mail telling me to ask her out. So I did and she said No! Why did she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6934 days ago

22 December 2005 (?) - I am 12 years old and I fancy this girl from school. We email all the time. I asked her out and she said she'll think about it. Three weeks later she said no. I got an e-mail saying 'Ask me out' so I did and she said 'no'. Why would it take three weeks to get an answer... (83 words)

Two breakups in just 4 months! My guy doesn't know what he wants, except "space", so he keeps walking away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I had been with my boyfriend for 1 year 3 months when he decided to break up with me because we couldn't seem to compromise on when both of us would be available to meet up. I tried to set another day when we could meet up, but all of a sudden, out of the blue, he broke up... (301 words)

A guy who texts me has a girlfriend...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy who is a friend of a friend and he asked for my number from our mutual friend who gave it to him without my consent,however he started texting and calling me we got to know eachother and hes an okay guy...after about a few weeks i started kinda liking him and ... (169 words)

I treated her so badly...but I desperately want her forgiveness

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - Hi, please am so sad i need help.Try not to judge me when you read my story, my mind is already doing that.i have been under depression but i know its no excuse.here it goes. I have been dating this girl for 6years now. I did promise to marry her and i was the first man in... (390 words)

She's in contact with ex-lovers-I no longer feel safe in this relationship. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - i have been living with a 50 year old lady that i knew for the past 6 years. we believe we are soul mates and plan to get engaged and eventualy married. i have however over the past 6 months become aware that she is in touch with many of her ex lovers who she classes as freinds ... (162 words)

After 7 years together-it struck me oddly, that she left me with no warning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - I am 27. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years. We were in a long distance relationship for the last year. During our time apart I regularly hinted that we should get married once we were in the same city again. She had always wanted to marry me, but upon ... (113 words)

How do I make my vagina tighter??

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i really need help on this one if any one can help, my relationship kind of depends on it. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and we have only had sex a few times but he doesnt seem pleased. i dont know if my vagina is too big for him or if his penis is too small ... (109 words)

Guy I want to be "more than friends" with says he is dating someone... Who is married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - I am friends with a guy who wants to be more than friends. However, when I asked him when he moved from another city if he was dating someone else, he said yes. And she is married to someone else. Do you think that we can ever move from just being friends?... (55 words)

Am I over-reacting or does my new boyfriend just not care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, Well I have been on a few dates with this guy, and he recently spent the night at my house and we had sex. He then asked me to officially be his girlfriend, but now it seem like he is ignoring me. I called him to just talk, but he was half asleep so I just... (132 words)

Is my boyfriend, who prefers to masturbate rather than have sex, going to marry me or is he waiting for a "better deal"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - My bf of 4 years prefers masturbation than sex and is not committing in our relationship. He tells me that masturbation is easier, and that we don't have to have sex everytime we see each other, and that he gets tired when having sex. We only have sex about once or twice a ... (214 words)

My mom is having an affair... Again. What do I do? Who can I tell?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - When i was about 8 my mum and dad split up for 3 months. At the time they said they just needed a break. They got marrage counciling and got back together. In the years following i slowly learnt by slip ups and evesdropping that the reason for the split was that my mum had had ... (321 words)

Which one likes me...or do they both like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6939 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - Hi I have liked a person who I will call person 1 for a long time , then and a couple of weeks ago when I was working with her and my best friend, she started to make atractive movments and well other stuff torads me when he looked away, but since then she hasn't said anything ... (143 words)