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writes:I'm in love with a guy that used to be with my ex stepsister's sister. In fact he lost his virginity with her! When they were going out together I liked him when I first saw him. I liked him, it's just she got there first. I was too scared; I didn't realy know him. She was even the one who introduced us.Then when they were going out, I lost interest and even after I lost interest but as I've been seeing him as mates for a while now I've realised that he's the perfect for me and I know he likes me too because we have talked about it. In fact, one night I made a prat of myself and asked him on a date, and because of his past with my stepsister he said no. However I beleive that's an excuse and I did this when we were no longer in family together. I'm so confused because even though it's a strong word and there are other people on the scene I'm in love with him. He's the perfect gentleman and they're hard to come across.Plus he's such a good friend he hasn't let that get in the way of our friendship, but I so want more. Even if it is against both our morals, just this once I wish we could throw the rule book out of the window and go for it. And I know it's a bit weird but I've also had several psychic consultations that have all mentiond him, described him and picked up on him liking me and me liking him. Is there a way to get out of this hole?Help me please; it's forbidden :(
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Angel pie,
I'm not sure what his problem is, because there is nothing immoral about it, your stepsister is exactly that, she is of no relation to you and now that she's your Ex-stepsister it's even less a problem, try and make him understand that.
If all else fails then get your Ex-stepsister to speak to him if she is over him.
But unfortuneately there is nothing much you can do!
The choice is up to him, and if he really likes he will choose you just give it some time.
The word sister is most likely playing on his mind, convince him that you aren't related and that there is nothing wrong with the to of you dating.
But my best bet would be to speak to your Stepsister and see if she would help you.
I hope this helps
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