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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's mad at me so why is he trying to get my attention? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6832 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Last year everyone knew we were in love and he would cry over me when i would break up with him or mad at him. He cried over me before we went out because he wanted to be with me so badly. His parents even heard him cry even his boys saw him cry but he didn't care. but this ... (292 words)

My gf complains that sex is too painful-how can I make it pleasurable for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend complains that sex is painful for her. I have tried several different positions and techniques but I cannot seem to find anything that works. She says that the length of my penis is the problem ( I measure in at 8 inches ). I have not had this problem with other ... (106 words)

I'm pretty convinced she knows I love her now..how do I talk to her about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

14 December 2005 (F)

- hay guys, so this is part 2 to my last problem. I am pretty convinced my boss now knows that i love her. She has made slight "digs" at me liking her and wanting to spend more time with her. She flirts with me (i know this is not her being serious and she is either teasing me ... (99 words)

We've broken up and now...I've lost my confidence with other guys...Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, im 15 and ive just broken up with my boyfriend after 8 months and i dont no what to do. we never talk anymore. its like a whole chunk of my life has just gone. i really do love him even tho we broke up 2 months ago i av totally lost my confidence with guys n i dno ... (70 words)

Things with my man went cold, then hot. Now they're cold again! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I have have on on-off relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years. Things finally came to a head 2 years ago when he was caught cheating on me. He left me devastated and moved away. I eventually got my life back, got a brill job, moved to another country and basically moved on... (210 words)

My old boyfriend is making life a complicated nightmare!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I am frightened and in a spider's web! 6 weeks ago I got involved with a friend who is having an affair with someone else who is still living with her man (they are not married). I split with my man 6 months ago and my new man split with his girlfriend 10 months ago. So ... (450 words)

My gf and I broke up. But she's dating another girl and I'm having a hard time moving on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a lesbian who has been with my girl for five years. She broke up with me in May because she said I was too sprung. I didn't consider myself to be sprung, I was in love. I really love this girl and I believe she is my soulmate. I am having a hard time ... (115 words)

I hate that he's slept with so many girls before me-I'm obssessed by this. Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F)

- I need advice about how to deal with my boyfriends past. He was open when we met about his past sex life and there has been a lot of girls. This didn't bother me at first but, like it has with exes, it soon got out of control the more I fell in love with him I am obsessed ... (335 words)

Married at 20 years old and I'm not happy...did I marry too young?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - hi. i got marrried 8 months ago at the age of 20. now i can't help but wonder if i made a mistake. i know that my husband loves me and i love him, but not in the same way. we recently moved and i began an affaire with someone we both worked with. now i'm afraid that i love this ... (195 words)

He is too busy for us and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I had a problem with my boyfriend being to busy all the time. I talked to him about it and he thinks just because he does things for us that it should make up for us not doing anything together. I love him so much and i wish he could see that. When I asked him to separate for ... (89 words)

He's off to basic training with the military...will this change him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is going away for basic training in January and is going to be gone for 6 months or so. We're so happy and in love and he's very serious with me and tells me everything will be okay and he's willing to stick with me and be with me when he comes back. He loves me ... (84 words)

If I date a good friend, will that ruin our friendship, if things don't work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

14 December 2005 (M)

- I'm 16 and i need help. There's a girl at school that I cant stop thinking about and she has thought about me before but I don't know what to do because she's a good friend and I don't want to ruin that and I don't think she want's to either. Please help me I'm drowning... (56 words)

She's a good friend but I can't stop thinking about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (M)

- i'm 16 and i need help. theres a girl at school that i cant stop thinking about and she has thought about me before but i dont know what to do because she's a good freind and i dont want to ruine that and i dont think she want's to either. please help me i'm drowning... (56 words)

Are all these disasters going to lead to my boyfriend dumping me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Hi all! i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost five years now and we're very serious. However recently a few disasters have started making me feel worried about whether he is going to dump me or not. First of all he has just become very close to an old best friend ... (298 words)

What does he really feel for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6904 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend split from me a couple of months ago saying he loves me but doesn't know if his heart is in it, doesn't know if he is in love with me. I told him that it was the cruellest thing to do to someone and asked several times if he honestly didn't know and he said that ... (185 words)

How do we stop fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - We like eachother so much, we are so attached, but we fight like crazy, she says let me have a ciggarette i say no she starts crying saying i am too controlling when i just care about her, we fight for stupid things and it doesnt seem healthy, what do i do?... (52 words)

I like him but I worry he may think I'm after him to get a free meal ticket-and I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - The man I like is extremely popular (he is the life and soul of the party and I am the wallflower) and is highly successful in his career, whereas I feel like a total loser in comparison. I am in my early 30’s, and I am feeling at the lowest point in my life - I have no job ... (358 words)

Should I continue our relationship even though we are in two different worlds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - hi! i met my boyfriend online for a year now and he promise me that he will visit me but he broke he's promise so many times. i love him so much and as a single mother its nice to know that my boyfriend love my son also. we are in two differents worlds and i do everything for ... (113 words)

The truth or dare party has caused me to lose my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - about a month ago i was at a mates party and we wer playin truth or dare. my best mates boyfrend was dared to kiss me, he did. now my best mate says she has tried to forgive me and be frends, but she cant. she is one of the most popular girls at skool an i am scared that if she ... (98 words)

He has touched me since I got pregnant and the baby is one years old! help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - My finacee and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have a two year old child. He hasn't touched me sexually since I got pregnant. I don't know what to do. Other than that aspect we have the perfect relationship. I absolutely know that he isn't cheating on me. I am ... (69 words)

Should my wife still socialise with a guy who is interested in her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (M)

- I'm having a disagreement with my wife. If a guy approaches her while she's out with girlfriends, obviously he's interested. If she tells him she's married and not to get the wrong idea, is it proper for her to socialize with him after making her status clear? I though... (149 words)

He wants to move across the country and I'm so scared to lose him..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating him for awhile and although it wasn't a surprise he wants to move all the way across the country. Im scared to lose him. He wants to leave soon. how do i deal?... (37 words)

Is it normal for his ex to be a big part of our relationship? And why am I so jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and half now, we're now living together, we have a wonderful relationship. Hes very caring, and loving towards me, he has his off days now and then but when I need him, he always goes out of his way to make sure I'm ok, and that I know ... (278 words)

Should I leave my "uncomfortable" boyfriend before he breaks my heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. he's a great guy, he's met my parents, ive met his parents. we have a good sex life, we laugh and have a good time with each other but there is one problem. he told me that there are some things that make him unconfortable and he ... (106 words)

I prefer 'no strings' sex with the men but this guy is getting to me. I'm wondering if he feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (?) - I hang out with the men of my community. I do not keep female friends and all the men in my community are aware that I do not like Public Display of Affection, that I do not want/need a relationship, and I do not like romance. If I like a man to an extent, and if I choose to ... (263 words)

We've had some problems and now he wants to have a serious talk. Does he still like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - me and my boyfriend been going out for 2 months now. but for the past week it has been different he hasn't call me no more and i don't call him cause he don't call me. when i ask him why he don't call me when he don't hear from me he said that" sorry i don't do that" then 2 ... (248 words)

I love her to death... And because of it I've been served with a court order!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - i have been dating this girl i have been seeing for about five months we really hit it off but as usaul i rushed into things, i moved in with cause she ask me to and we and we both planned to have a baby all in a matter of months, just recently i lyed to her about some money ... (224 words)

She tells me she's not sure if she "loves me" or is just "used to being with me"... What next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we had an argument this weekend about how she doesn’t like it when I criticize her spending habits. Then yesterday she tells me (on the phone) that she is no longer happy in the relationship. We agreed on a break. ... (159 words)

Guy I'm interested in likes "warm" people... But what does that entail!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6917 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - The guy I am interested (and I gather is interested in me) in has said, via someone I know, that he likes warm people, but how does a warm person act? Does he mean someone who is warm on an emotional level, a physical level, or both? He also doesn’t like it when people put on ... (144 words)