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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He changed his mind to be with her...do I continue being his friend and stay hopeful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have got involved with a very close friend of mine. I have known him for over 7 years and we have always been close and confided in each other. Until 9 months ago he was with his long term partner of 5 years and until 5 months ago I was with my long term partner of 9 ... (224 words)

Now that I'm interested in someone else...my gf is willing to leave her partner! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I am having a relationship with a woman who lives over 100 miles away and who lives with her partner. I have been seeing her for 3.5 years. Quite often I have asked her if she would ever leave her partner and she said she was not strong enough to do it and I was getting too ... (139 words)

My friend is a pathological liar...do we confront her or ignore her?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - My friend is a liar. We have researched it and we think she has the symptoms of a pathalogical liar. Should we confront her about it? Or should we continue not beleiveing anything that she says? PLEASE HELP ... (44 words)

We've had flirtatious moments-do I tell her I love her even though she has a bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - Hi Need some advice really urgently. I'm in love and have very deep feelings for a girl i work with in the same department (shes 30 i'm 32). She moved into our department about 2 months ago and we've really got on very well including a few flirtious moments. This girl has... (132 words)

His ex wants to be friends with me...is she being nice or do I need to be careful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hi everyone, me n my bf have been together 5months, he's always been friends with his ex (they only went out for about 3days just over a year ago) and about 2 months ago my bf told me that his ex was chatting to him on msn and she kept asking him out again and that she loved ... (132 words)

I got drunk and cheated with my bf's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months. I had broken up with my previous boyfriend for him, and he(the new boyfriend) wanted me to take some time off and think about if I had made the correct decision. I did not want to do that I had already made up my mind concerning ... (196 words)

He wants a break so should I assume that he still wants to get back with me later on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I recently broke up w/ my bf of 6 years because he got drunk one night and cheated on me with my friend..When I found out what happened, he told me that he knew he messed up everything, he truly regret it and that he realizes how much I mean to him. He says he wants to prove ... (343 words)

He dumped me once and wants to try again...I'm afraid he may do it again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I was committed in a relationship for 2 1/2 years, everything was great, but then all of a sudden 3 months ago, my boyfriend tells me that he needs time to focus on starting a new business and he ended the relationship... I WAS SHOCKED!!!. I had a very hard time, I was very ... (264 words)

There's no sex but a good connection, otherwise..should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I really don't know what to do, I have been with this guy for about 9 months and I do love and him and we have a good connection but we have no physical side! its because I don't fancy him! I want to stay with him I really do but can this work with no physical side? please ... (60 words)

He slept with his ex gf and then gave me genital herpes but he doesn't know...how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for three months. We have been intimate for about two months now. There was a time after he and I were sleeping together that he had sex with someone else, an ex of his, once. He was very open and honest about it and we worked through that ... (145 words)

I don't know how to talk to this girl I like...should I just give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - Please can you help me. I like this girl in the year below me and i have no idea how i can talk to her because i don't no her and she doesn't no me. My friends have really put me down saying i should leave it because i won't be able to talk to her. Are they right. And if i do ... (87 words)

She got mad at me because I had to leave her party. Should I contact her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I was invited to a going away party for a former co-worker. She invited me. At the party, she suggested that we get together after she started her new job. She approached me when I was alone to suggest that we get together. Due to a family conflict, I couldn't stay long. ... (99 words)

I'm very shy so how do I get this guy to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I am in love with a boy and apparently according to my friends he loves me to, but we are too shy to talk to each other. How do I get him to make a move(preferably without me having to talk). yours too shyly argh... (48 words)

How can I understand the mixed messages he's sending?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F)

- Dear Cupid, I have this relationship with my friend,(whose male) that i'm not sure of. I'm pretty sure I'm in love of him as I think about him all the time. However, sometimes he's my friend, other times he's more flirty and romantic, and other times he doesn't talk to me. He s... (107 words)

He cheated on me and I'm hurt...so why do I want him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hello im 16 and im in love with a boy he was 22 he now 23 but i neva saw he at the age of 23. i met him in the end of march and he took my v in arpril we had a great relationship we never really had fites. the only think was my family didnt like him so that made it hard my mum ... (304 words)

I am not attracted to my wife physically..should I have sex with an old gf?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I love my wife very much and would never want to hurt her. We get along very well and are very connected, except for one area: sex. I am no longer attracted to her physically. In the meantime, an old girlfriend of mine has contacted me and really wants to have sex with me. ... (62 words)

He's addicted to online games...and has very little time for me and the kids. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - i have been with my partner for 3 years but have know him much longer. we were best mates when i was younger but i didnt see him for years while i was with the father of my first two kids, we have been together now for 3 years and have 1 son together all the kids call him daddy ... (240 words)

He admits to cheating on all his gf's...but wants to change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend has told me he doesn't love me as much as I love him, but feels we have a future together and he wants to be with me. We've only been together 4 months. At the beginning he nursed me after an operation and I have become dependent on him. He also said when he was ... (99 words)

He makes sexual remarks about my Mom and Sister..is this normal?.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

7 December 2005 (F)

- I've been having a problem with my boyfriend for a little bit now. It seems that he thinks it's ok for him to say sexual remarks about my mom, my sister, and even some girls that he don't know. I'm pretty sure that he would never cheat on me, but I don't think that it's right ... (258 words)

We love each other but he got drunk and kissed another girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I really need help on this on. I'm extremely confused at mo. My bf of 3 yrs broke up recently, he kissed a girl from work, told me a few days later, said he had ruined it all, never thought he'd ever ever do such a thing, especially to me, doesn't know why he did it and that i ... (335 words)

He's questioning our relationship because he wants to move...I want to stay put.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6949 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - my boyfriend is 30 years old and has never had a long term relationship before. We have had the perfect relationship for nearly a year and recently his sex drive has started to dwindle. He has now said completely out of the blue that he doesnt feel the same way that he used ... (138 words)

We broke up and got back together again...but it's awkward between us, now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Last month my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because the distance between us had gone from 1 1/4 hours to just over 2 hours as i had moved to uni. Also he got a promotion at work which means him driving about 800miles a week and he felt he couldnt cope doing the journey ... (139 words)

I'm crazy about my brother's friend but my brother is totally against it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I need some advice. I am crazy about my brother's friend and he is about me. I have asked my brother about seeing his friend and at first he considered it then said no. He doesn't want things to be wierd. I think he might get used to it. His friend will only date me if my ... (85 words)

I love him but he texts other woman..I can't trust him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - really need some advice. I have been in two serious relationships in my past - one for 7 years (he cheated on me and left me for someone else) and one for 2 years (he was very controlling and mentally abusive). I have started seeing somone (who i met on the net). We ha... (378 words)

I love cuddling him but dread having sex with him..because he wants it constantly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Do I still fancy him? I have been with my partner for over a year and a half now and we are engaged and living together. I care about him alot and miss him when he is not around, but then when we are together he pushes for sex all the time! Its as if thats all he thinks ... (167 words)

I'm in love with her...but she doesn't seem to really care. What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - dear, My problem is as i think generated by me itself. Not going in details, i am in love of my first and i think last g. f, with couple of years. In start around 1 year she made close relationship with me, i did all she told, i tried to make her happy every moment. her beha... (196 words)

I'm confused! IWhy do guys think I'm 'sweet' but get scared to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Hi I'm im 2nd Year Medschool n I'm 20. I shifted to this university 4 months ago, and everything was perfect.. until 2 months later.. This guy 'A' in my class would keep messaging me, and finally asked me on a date. Well..we went for coffee twice and when he would say it was... (1139 words)

Do we still have a chance together or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6922 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - Hi good morning. Im in a bit of a pickle and am really looking for some advice. My girlfriend and i were together for around about 4-5months and everything was great. I always knew that she was going to uni unfortunately at the other end of the country, however always chose to ... (339 words)

He hits me and then tells me I'm lucky to have him! Help me..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6925 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Hi there, i am in my early thirties and so is my bf. we have been on for 2yrs. they are some many problems in the relationship but am just too scared to leave cos i am an albino(hyper-pigmentation) and i dont usually get much attention at all. The first problem is that ... (468 words)

I still hope to be with him...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6949 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Hi , it's weird cos I really don’t know where to start. But ill admit ive done a few wrong things. I am in love with a guy who considering the way he treats me does not deserve my love. Its been an on and off relationship for three years I was a bit rushed and young in ... (557 words)

I am having trouble achieving orgasms and I don't know why..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and the sex has been amazing. he can get me to orgasm through oral sex and its fantastic. but recently i havent been able to come or orgasm at all and i dont know why. i feel bad because i know my boyfriend wants sex with me ... (82 words)

I love my cybersex guy..should I leave my partner of 10 years for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hi this is part two to my chatroom love affair,i love the guy for many reasons but the most is sex,our cyber is the best ever,well i do feel good after the sex.anyway this is an interracial affair,the thing is i got a guy, but this cyber lover has got my heart, we have plans ... (129 words)

Am I overreacting to the fact that my boyfriend isn't as demonstrative these days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months now and everything has been fantastic. Lately though I have been feeling a bit insecure and I keep comparing how we interact now to how we did when we first started dating. I find myself saying to him "how come you never do this ... (134 words)

My gf moved to another state-we still call and e-mail but I miss her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - my gf moved to anouther state i miss her we still call and email each outher but i dont get to see her anymore what should i do ... (28 words)

Do I lie or tell my Mom the truth about my online friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Hello all, a fast response would be appreciated, im 19 and i have been talkin to a guy on the net but my mom doesnt approve so i havent told her yet and he asked to meet to talk and he wants to be friends. The bad thing is its in two days and i dont know what to tell my mom, ... (87 words)

My husband hates my job, spends all the money-I pay for everything and I feel used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - dear cupid, i met my husband when i was 17 he was 21 i was and still am an exotic dancer. He has been with me for 8 years and knows all about it. i have never cheatd on him. we have 2 kids together he is always throwing my job in my face but he never watches the kids and ... (188 words)

Is he cheating on me or is this drunken stupidnees on his part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I made the mistake of snooping through my bf's phone. Ever since, I can't get it out of my head he's cheating, and it's making both our lives miserable! We've been dating about 8 months, and there were texts to his ex saying "whats up babe" and "come over i want to see you". I ... (110 words)

Already sleeping with my ex... But should I f*** her too ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

7 December 2005 (M)

- Dear Cupid, My ex-girlfriend happens to be staying over with me. We are still good friends but I suspect things are starting to go further. I live in a 1-bed apartment and she started sleeping on the floor but now sleeps in my bed. She hugs me, wraps her arms round me in... (133 words)

Why do bright attractive women fall in love with married men? Help me understand

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I am a 38 yr old attractive, intelligent woman. My problem is that I am in love with a married man. His marriage is loveless there is no physical contact and has not been for 3 years. He has 2 children 11yrs 4 yrs owns his own business and several other financial ... (127 words)

I can't stand thinking of my ex gf with someone else..I'm wallowing in self-pity!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I'm torn up right now. My EX-gf and I have been together now for 2 1/2 years. I hurt her pretty badly a year ago when I broke up with her. I was confused at that time and felt that I needed to change. After three months apart and a rebounder for me we got back together. ... (230 words)

No guy can live up to my boyfriend who died 8 years ago..I just can't feel love. Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I think my heart evaporated! I am 24 and at age 16 my boyfriend died in a car accident. I think he might have been my soulmate. I have never been able to feel love since I just never feel anything. I have him on a pedestal and no one has ever come close to how amazing he was. I ... (118 words)