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anonymous
writes: How often do most couples in committed relationships talk on the phone? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, past2 +, writes (30 December 2005):
As much or less as you like. You have to be a phone person in order to like the phone. I'm in a relationship we see each other every day, but at night we always call to say goodnight
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female
reader, Tinkz +, writes (30 December 2005):
Short and simple,
As often as you want! If you miss him call him!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): hello,
i think it depends on the couple and the dynamic of your relationship. i, for example, am in a long distance relationship, so i talk to my boyfriend at least once a day..some times more often, and email a couple of times a day. for us, this is normal. i need the communication where as my boyfriend would still be happy if we only talked once every few days or once a week even (cause it would give us more to talk about). i agree with StarNews that it really depends on the two of you.
if i were you, i wouldn;t put so much pressure on yourself with regards to the amount of times that you and your boyfriend call one another. just let it happen naturally. when you feel like calling, call. when you don;t, don't. it's as easy as that. best of luck in your situation :)
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female
reader, StarNews +, writes (30 December 2005):
There is no set amount of time you should talk with someone or see them. I feel when you are in a relationship, it is the quality of time that matters, not the quantity. It depends on what you are both comfortable with, and its something you should discuss. Some couples call each other at least once a day, some say that is too much. I feel the more you talk about your needs and expectations from the start, the better. I dont feel it is good to assume what the other expects or needs. It opens the lines of communication to a good healthy relationship.
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