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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He slept with someone else before we were serious. I think that counts, but he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

18 December 2005 (F)

- Help - I can't forget about something!! Me and my current boyfriend, Lee* were seeing each other before I left my ex, Paul*. I was mad about Lee from when we first met and it took us a long time to get together but in the end we did and now we're very happy together. Howe... (206 words)

Guys: is it better for a woman to look like a porn star?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Question for guys Do men find the bodies of women in porn superior to those of their girlfriend/wife? I'm not talking about the feelings or warmth etc, just the way we look. Honest answers please... (44 words)

Since I've been pregnant, it;s like my boyfriend just isn't there anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm pregant with my bf's baby. I've been with my bf for 5-6 years off an on but for the last year we've been doing great. I moved in with him about 2 months ago and things where going good. I'm almost 4 months along in my pregnancy and he seems like he ... (122 words)

18 months have gone by and I just can't let go of the thought of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - My ex recently made contact with me again after about 18 months since we split. He has said he is sorry, that he wished things were different and that he does love me. I still love him. I am however with someone else and whilst I cannot deny that I am clearly still captivated ... (305 words)

Is there really such a thing as "Love At First Sight"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I'm 32 and divorced and in a relationship but.....a guy I met a few weeks into my new relationship keeps popping up in my life. I'm sad to say that I have cheated with this guy twice in the last few months and then we called it off. However in the last few days we have been ... (169 words)

My husband says he'll "try" to change, but never does. How do others cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I have a question on how to 'fight fair' with a couple of situations that have me feeling like I'm hitting a brick wall. My husband's first response to most of my concerns is 'well you do it!' or 'you used to do it!' I used to fall into this and defend why I did in the past... (162 words)

Having sex for the first time...what if I'm too small?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

18 December 2005 (F)

- Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl and plan on having sex for the first time. I know it can be painful, but is there any way I can make it less painful? My guy has a really large penis, and I'm scared that I'm too tight for him. Is it safe to try and break the hymen with a tampo... (77 words)

I fancy my sister...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

18 December 2005 (M) - Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?... (28 words)

Should I give up on her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

18 December 2005 (M) - There is this girl that I have liked for ages and she has said on many occassions that she likes me too. Just recently she told me she really wanted to be with me but she is scared that it wont work out. I told her not to be scared and that we should takes things slowly and see ... (144 words)

Is he really cheating on me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - ive been seeing a guy called stuart, and hes a bouncer. ive been told that hes cheating on me with the barmaid. he says its just his friend. stuarts mate has been known for telling lies, but should a believe stuart or not. i don t know wit a would do withought him, have fell ... (62 words)

Should he say he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I know he loves me, but... he just won't say. We've been going out for almost 2.5 years. We're both divorced and neither of us want more kids (ours from previous marrages are grown). I light up when he's around. He makes my heart sing. He says he doesn't want to be in a ... (159 words)

No sex with my husband and now I've met another guy who has a girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Married 27 years separate bedrooms sexless for 12 years - husband never gave me a reason why. Stayed because of son. Recently met another guy who has fallen for me and I'm falling for him. He's got a gf but some problems there. He gave me a hug and some kisses the other day - ... (94 words)

What are the guys on dating sites really after??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I'm confused!! I have had 3 relationships within the past three months that all seem to have the same outcome. At first I feel really excited and happy within the relationship, but within a few weeks of it i start to feel I suppose a little insecure and the relationship feels ... (148 words)

I don't see my girlfriend apart from at work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (M) - Ok, here goes... my girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I hardly see her out side work because she has fibromyagia and this time of year isn't nice to her. Still she doesn't call, visit or write. The only time I see or here from her out side of the ... (76 words)

I feel like a failure as all I've done is work for my folks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (M) - help, im really annoyed,and frustrated, im 22yrs old, yes i am still starting my life, when i finished school i went to work with my folks straight away, as i felt that i wanted to work and earn myself a living, right, that didn't exactly work out. Im working with them, have no ... (284 words)

Why can't my ex be friendly with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - If your ex, whom you shared a deep and emotional relationship with at one time is distant, what does this mean? This particular ex is friends or at least nominally more friendly with all of his other exes than he is with me. Right after the break-up he wanted to remain friends, ... (402 words)

What is an orgasm?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

18 December 2005 (F)

- Okay... Heres me question... I'm 18 and have been sexually active for a little over a year. I just had sex with my boyfreind (the third guy i've ever been with). So yeah heres the question. What is an orgasum? I don't think that I have ever had an orgasum. Is orgasumi... (100 words)

He cheated on me...how can I trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - i was going out with this guy and things started off not that great at first but got amazing. it was over the summer and i went away to camp and he ended up cheating on me. he would always tell me he wouldnt and i gave him all of my trust. i thought i was over him but i dont ... (94 words)

Found the "shirtless" photos of my "shy" online guy on another website under a different name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Ok this isn't a serious problem but I would just like some thoughts. About two months ago I met this guy on the internet. We became really close. We would send pics of ourselves to eachother etc..and just talk about things we did that day. Well one day he sent me a "shirtless ... (162 words)

I can't get any time without my wife since we married. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

18 December 2005 (?) - I have a question I need to ask anyone who has endured a longstanding relationship or is in one now. I have been with my girl for over 2 and a half years now. We got married in October. We are in a good loving relationship and fitting into the married life. My prob... (292 words)

What do I do about the guy who's interested in me, but doesn't get that I'm with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I have a problem. I really need a guy's point of view in this. I'm a 14 year old girl. There's a boy in my Spanish class who really likes me. He doesn't have a lot of money and he spent it on me for a Christmas present. I have told him many times that I have a bf. My b... (159 words)

I'm tired of being my husband's maid and "mother"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I have been married for almost three years now and I am not attracted to my husband like I used to be. It's not because of his looks, it's the fact that he has become so lazy. I have to constintly clean up after him and nag him to get anything done. For example,he just got... (144 words)

He doesn't know what's wrong and we never talk any more. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost five months. He was really sweet to me and perfect until one day, like about 2 weeks ago, he got weird. He just says he doesn't know what's wrong. He says he still loves me and not to worry, but we barely ever talk anymore. He always ... (83 words)

When I asked my husband what he liked about my body he replied "hands and feet" !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Im hoping some of you wonderful people can give me some input on this one. As you will know from my previous post my husband made it very clear that he found porn stars more attractive than me. Since this problem came out in the open he has apologized for his cruel comments adn ... (317 words)

My husband tells me he loves me and doesn't want a divorce... but he won't leave his girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for nearly 3 months now and despite all that has happened (he cheated and became very nasty) I am still in love with him, miss him and care very much for him. Over the time we have been getting closer again, but he will not leave his "gir... (130 words)

Sexually active for a while, but no orgasm for me! Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Hi- I have a little question that I would like help with. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for a while and I have never orgasmed. He knows this, and wants to do something, but I don't know what would help me. Can anyone give me any tips on how to get an orgasm? ... (67 words)