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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's so childish! Do I just accept it or can I do something to make him stop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is sooo annoying.... My boyfriend has a bad temper and when we get into arguments he wants to talk right away and i need my space. When i don't talk to him he will say things like, "Great, my own girlfriend doesn't even want to talk to me" and he will like hum and ... (242 words)

He's shy-I'm shy...how do we get together? Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I am a quiet and shy person around men. I have met a guy who I get on well with and he has been hinting he likes me too. He seems a little shy himself at times. Flirting feels awkward to me. I am eager to go out on a date with him, but given that I am shy and he may be too, ... (108 words)

She's so insecure and paranoid...it drives me crazy! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hiya i have been going out with my girlfriend now for nearly 5 months. I really do love her but her insecurity and paranoia drives me crazy and it has triggered arguments between us. It is frustrating to go out with someone like this as i feel that she doesnt always trust me! I ... (78 words)

He claims he was setting his friend up on a date...but was the girl on the phone really HIS date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 months and I think he may be cheating on me. He's been text messaging a lot (with his friends, he claims) and the other night when his phone rang, he checked to see who it was before taking the call in another room. After he fell asleep ... (118 words)

I love him but he treats me badly..then always apologizes. I am so tired of his temper!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6888 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Here goes,I can't tolerate it anymore.I wrote about my 5 months relationship with my bf earlier on. It's gone over the limit now. I seriously am in love with him, but I feel it isn't really the same for him. I have given my best in this relationship where sacrifice on my part ... (277 words)

My online bf asked me for advice if he should go back to his ex gf. I was shocked and hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Hi Everyone, bear with me on the length of this one but i need some serious advice. I've been having an online long distance relationship with a guy i went out with last december. For the entire year we spoke everyday on the phone, IM etc, after 2 weeks of being at home, he ... (339 words)

Is he really playing me or is he just trying to make me jealous? What's up with this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6910 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now.We dated in the past too. Well he is telling me that he cheated on me and he is also telling my cousin that he is playing me.After a while he tells us that he is just joking and we can't take a joke. Is he really playing ... (93 words)

She said her feelings have changed-but then said she still loved me...I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi cupid, I hope you can help with a question i have. I have been with my girlfriend for 7months now. I am 25 and with my first love and she is 21 and graduating college. A month ago i had to go back to ireland becaues of my visa. I plan on going back in March 06. She had ... (295 words)

Worried over my exam grades-are my future career prospects in jeopardy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I am 13 years old, about to take my SAT's exams, and in a year, my GCSE's. We recently had a maths test in school, a mock SAT's paper, and I did very badly, 25 out of 60, everyone else was getting in the 50's. I am so worried about my upcoming exams b... (224 words)

Help! I've never experienced sex with a man, so what's it really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - hi im 16 going on 17 and i am with this guy. i am very close to him and i think its time for us to get a little more sexual. i have never really expierienced a lads body before and i dont really know my way arround. my main question is what is sex like? i am read... (175 words)

My confidence is gone-I can't seem to talk to boys anymore..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6890 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - hi x x i just cant talk to boys anymore and im 14! i used to be a real hit with all the boys in my village, until i had a fight with this other girl for some stupid reason and i lost. i was too embarresed to ever show my face in that area again (apart from walking to a... (218 words)

I want to date a guy that has a gf-why am I leading on this other guy then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F)

- i am writin back 2 my question that i hav just posted(why am i datin my bf of 3 months..)it isnt about sex i do actually want to be in a real relationship i just dont know how 2 end it. i admit that when i cheat on him i don't feel guilty until i see him. However i really want ... (103 words)

About my depressed ex-do I wait for him to come to me, is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I need to get in touch with Mr.Ed he gave me alot of insight into my problem with my depressed ex. What do i do now, wait for him to come to me, is there anything i can do?... (39 words)

Why am I dating my bf of 3 months...but still cheating on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - i am a girl of 17 and ive been going out wit my bf 4 about 3 months even though i dnt lik him, however during this time i have cheated on him many times. the other day i kissed a friend who i work with and told him that i didnt have a bf so now he thinks i want to be with him ... (145 words)

He's 46 and ogles the teen girls! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

19 December 2005 (?) - My boyfriend is 46 years old. I am the same age. Whenever, we are out shopping, he really looks (I mean really staring and ogling) at teen girls about the age of 13-16 years old. I feel rather disgusted with this behaviour and I feel sorry for the young girls because you can ... (94 words)

He flirts with me constantly- I like him very much so where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 December 2005 (?) - he makes constant eye contact with me and its not just a stare, its like a real flirty sort of dreamy look, when we go out he makes an effort to laugh at my jokes, touch me, and generally be close to me, he tickles my feet and stuff, all i need to know is, do you think he ... (333 words)

I need to know if he really fancies me or if he is doing it just for fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

19 December 2005 (?) - im sorry to keep on its me again! deep down, i do know that he is flirting with me but its really getting to me now, he's driving me crazy, all i can think about is him. Is he doing this because he likes me or just for fun? i enjoy flirting with him, dont get me wrong but i ... (190 words)

Do I just let him go and hope that he gets his head sorted and come running back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - My bf of 3 years recently kissed another girl, we broke up! We hadn't eally been getting on for the past 6 months, well not not getting on its just we were both too busy for a relationship! Anyway I love this guy, I really really really adore him! I'm completely heart... (460 words)

I hurt his feelings..is there anything more I can do, or will I just make things worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - About two weeks ago I broke up with my fience of 3 years. I am 21 and he is 22 and we are both in college. Seven months ago I had moved across country for school. Just before I left he proposed and I accepted. When I was away he would call or text me multiple times a... (257 words)

He loves me and his ex gf.. but now he's confused and he's not sure what he wants.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I'm in love with a man that's in love with me and another woman from his past. He says that he's confused and he's not sure what he wants. He loves me but he loves her to. This has been going on for about 2 months. About 2wks ago he told me that he wanted to be with me and that ... (211 words)

I'm shy and quiet-am I ever going to get a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Help! my twin sister has recently started going out with her first boyfriend. Before we have both been single and not had a relationship. This has got me down a lot as although I fancy a guy I am really shy and quiet and too scared to ask him out and looking at how happy she is ... (68 words)

We have a long distance relationship...I feel as tho I am going into deep water that I do not know--I'm a bit scared and not confident. Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid---I am 77 and a friend--male on the internet is also 77--we have talked every day on the net for 3 years -and I suppose -even tho we have not met we are fond of each other--he is beginning to talk in an amourous way about loving me and not being able to do without ... (180 words)

Dating one of his good friends..but I am crazy about HIM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - During the summer i met this guy dara* and from the moment i saw him i was crazy about him..we drifted apart and now im going out with one of his friends mark* im not happy with him. im friends with one of dara's cousins and she told me that he liked me but im not sure please ... (65 words)

Part 2- Can we be more than friends or has she gone off me?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi again, this is the second time I have posted the first is under "Can we be more than friends or has she gone off me?". Anyway I took the advice I was given to give her space and let her decide for herself and it sort of worked so thanks. We were at this party and over the ... (161 words)

Falling for him quickly- so do I tell him I want more than a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi, i'm a 21 year old gay guy and am so confused with regard to someone i'm falling for... He's a friend, but a new one who i met a month ago. He's recently out of a very long term relationship, and the break up was very messy as he found out he was cheated on numerous times th... (249 words)

My gf did some some questionable things and I wonder..can I still trust her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - a year ago my gf of three years had a friend do some sexual stuff for her over a webcam, when i asked about it she said she didn't look and that it hadn't happened before ( i'd read the msn conversation they had becuase i knew he liked her and had a rep for getting taken women ... (180 words)

Does he like me more than a friend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (?) - Hello its me again! i recently asked you all about this guy (who is my sort of mate) whom i think fancies me. Well anyway, we all went out clubbing on saturday night and he was standing close to me all night, i was playing on one of those game things that they have in some of ... (248 words)

What are the chances that our relationship will work with a 17 year age difference?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

19 December 2005 (F)

- What are possible difficulties that could arise from having a 17 year age difference in a relationship? I'm 27 and the guy I like is 44. I really love him and he loves me, but already we've had comments that I looked like his daughter. I've already thought of some of the prob... (149 words)

My girlfriend wants experience with other men! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - My younger girlfriend says she loves me, but wants to get as much experience as me. I've had ten partners, she only two and she says thats unfair. She says it will just be for sexual experience and won't hurt our relationship. She wants me to agree to this to make her happy, I ... (59 words)

When my boyfriend and I kiss, he gets so hot he even masturbates in front of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out since two years. We have got a little bit of physical but have never done sex. It's on the basis of understanding that we won't have it before marriage. The problem is that when we kiss and all, we really enjoy but he gets tooo hottt an... (80 words)

He tells me I'm a crybaby one moment, then tells me how much he loves me the next! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I love my husband. Very much. However, I just don't know what to do. First, we have been married 6 years, with no children. I have a wonderful career, and my job pays everything. He works 2-3 days a week, and refuses to work anymore, saying he is sick; which he is. H... (310 words)

When my guy gets depressed, he breaks it off with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I think my ex is depressed. He just broke up with me for the 3rd time in 2 years. This time he told me he needs to get back on his feet, but can't juggle that and a relationship at the same time. I am 24 and he is 25. I love him more than anything, but he always pushes m... (256 words)

I'm 16 and he's 30, but we really connect. I want him to know it will work!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I've been talking to a guy who I've known since May and it's starting to get more serious. He's great and I like him a lot, but the problem is that he's 14 years older than me. I know it seems like a lot, expecially since I'm 16, but we connect on so many levels that it seems ... (257 words)

He does look at porn, and he lies to me about it. Should this be the end of things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

19 December 2005 (F)

- Been with my bf for over 3 years. Anyways I feel really insecure in the relationship. He looks at porn and always perves at other women when we are out in the public. I have told him about how this makes me feel yet he still does it. I was just wondering if people can tell me ... (141 words)

Can't feel good about my post-childbirth body, even though my boyfriend still says I'm sexy. I just don't feel sexy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I recently had a baby about 4 months ago. I appreciate what my body has done to bring my baby into the world but I just feel really unsexy now that I droop and hang and have all the stretch marks. My bf says he still finds me sexy but he looks at other women out in public, ... (123 words)

She says she still loves me but can't move back in because I'll "never change"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - I have been with my g/f for over 2 years, we argue a lot, but I feel that we do love one another. The other day we got in an arguemnt over the phone. She didn't come home, and went to her dad's house. On the phone she keeps saying "You won't change. I can't do this anymore". ... (209 words)

We lost track of each other, but I'm interested again. What do I do to let him know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I'm 15, and I used to date this boy last year. Then on this one website I left a blog and I said something naming all the people I could depend on, and I forgot him. So we just stopped dating. It was sort of mutual but now I really like him (again) and I don't know how to t... (75 words)

My bf's looking at my attractive friend is just a coincidence. That's what he says, anyway...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Dear anyone: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while now. We love each other so much, and it's as if we understand each others' emotions. This is the thing: When we are together, and we are in public, or with friends, he seems to *coincident... (160 words)

So many little suspicions... I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I was wondering if someone could give me some advice as i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. First of all she won't let me see what she is talking about in msn to one of her friends - girly talk! If I try, then she flips out. Also she has been txting a male frie... (346 words)

My social time is so limited now. Should I try online dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6912 days ago

19 December 2005 (?) - Hi, I've just graduated from uni and have started a job. I'm a musician, and teach in schools part-time whilst playing with a fast growing band. Since I've graduated, although I'm living in the same town, loads of my best friends have moved away and the reason why I've ... (109 words)