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writes: This problem is real long so I will just sum it up. There is this guy that likes me. He is always saying things and it's pretty obvious he wants to get with me. I do not have the same feelings (I am into someone else). My best friend is in love with the guy that likes me. He has told me he does not like her like that. I feel bad for the guy because he is a nice guy; girls just don't want to date him. I have a strong feeling he will ask me out soon. I am the kind of person who is too nice and can't say no. What should I do? Should I say yes because I feel bad girls don't usually say yes to him? Should I say no because I am into someone else? What about my best friend? HELP!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Hi dearie, i agree with Tinkz. if u know u arent into him then it wont do him any good for u to go out with him cos you will hurt him at the long run. Tell him the truth and that u have feelings for another and your friend is the one interested in him.Your interest obviously lies with another u should concentrate getting to know this other person.All the best dear.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Well, the best thing to do is be honest with him,
You don't want to get yourself in a relationship that you don't want to be in! Tell him you not interested in him that way and the fact that your friend likes him is even more reason why you won't date him! Say NO! as hard as it may be, it may hurt his feelings but rather do it now and than break up with him after he falls head over heals in love with you!
Unfortuneately the way you feel about him he feels for your friend and there is nothing you can do about that.
Bottom line, BE HONEST about EVERYTHING
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