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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My long distance bf wants to meet my children..but he keeps putting it off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I am a divorced mom and I have had a long distance boyfriend that I met online a little over a year ago. We have met 2 times. He says he wants to be with me forever, but also says he never wants to marry again. He says he wants to meet my children, but keeps putting it off. ... (185 words)

She smiles at me, she texts me, she asks me to walk her home...do you think she likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

6 December 2005 (M)

- Dear Cupid, I'm just wondering: There is this girl who goes to my school (im 16 in yr 11 by the way) and whenever she sees me she says hi and smiles a real big smile. N she always texts me asking to me to walk home with her - she offered me a ride home the other day. I know ... (82 words)

The signs are there that he could be seeing someone else...but he says it's nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - ive been with my fiance 4 1/2 yrs for the last 3 months he has been working away during the week.the last few weeks he hasnt been ringing me when he says and he is always stressing at me for no reason. ive checked his phoneand found messages from someone there saying give her... (95 words)

This guy sends me mixed messages...I feel so lost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - hi, im totally lost and have no idea what to think about my guy. I have known him for about 3 months but we have began a relationship about a month ago. I was hesitant form the start because he is a player. all the girls like him he's good looking he can basically have anybody ... (244 words)

Guys..I need your advice. How do I get close to a girl I love and win her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - ok this girl and me used to live in india but we had only met each other 1 time, at like when we were 7. But our parents were very good friends and they knew each other for 20 years. so five years ago we came to america and i met her. As they say i fell in love with her at the ... (400 words)

I did something to hurt her...we separated but I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6922 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I have been separated from my wife for 5 months. We two small children. I did something that has hurt her pretty bad. It's not infidelity, but a serious financial disaster as a result of a recently diagnosed mental illness and I stand to lose alot. I still love her and want my ... (81 words)

I'm male and I'm 15...curious on how to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I'm a 15 year old male, and have never mastubrated before. I was curious on how.... (16 words)

Can I get pregnant through irregular use of the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i love every second of it, i have been on the pill and also been taking other mecicines. For the last week i came off the other medication and back on the pill... i been back on the pill for 8 days, Can i still get ... (68 words)

I got drunk and did a sex video-my ex is blackmailing me with it! Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I got really drunk at a friends house and ended up having a 4 some w/ 2 guys and a girl. We all took turns video taping it and now Im in trouble. My ex bf, who is also my son's dad, was in the video and it was his camera we were using. My problem now is that I have a boyfriend ... (223 words)

Not sure if my ex is just being polite, or if there's more to it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - How can you tell whether an ex is being just polite or interested in a friendship? I was unofficially seeing a guy for 6 months. It ended in May. We worked together in the same office and sat 5 metres apart, hence it was a very difficult situation. We felt it moved too q... (527 words)

I've started cheating on my boyfriend with my best friend - and I don't want to hurt either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with 'John' for about 6 yrs and approx 3 1/2 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s been very obvious since, that our ... (365 words)

My best friend doesn't know that I'm bisexual... or that I'm interested in her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other for about 2 years (we are both teenage girls). I have never dated or kissed anyone, but I thought I was straight. She has had loads of boyfriends, she's popular, pretty, confident and flirty but I am quite shy, not exactly thin or ... (106 words)

I'm so shy that I'm afraid I'm coming across as "cold"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I’ve met a guy who I think is wonderful. In fact, I would go as far as to say he is ‘the one’ - trouble is, I am extremely shy. I find it really difficult initiating and continuing conversations with people generally, but in particular to people I am interested in. I do open ... (231 words)

He destroyed my work after I broke up with him...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I recently broke up with my ex-bf aging for the last time in 3 years. This time we were not fighting. I meet someone else and desided to be with him. I have been avioded my ex for a week and I fianly called him and told him that I needed to come pick up my stuff from his house. ... (204 words)

She had an abortion...should I have broken up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I recently started seeing a girl, however she told me she had an abortion with her previous boyfriend after two weeks after we had been going out it killed me! i couldnt believe that this girl who i had spent time with came out with this, she was expecting me to break up with ... (79 words)

Is my package too small and does size really matter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I am curious about the old saying "Size doesn't matter". I am considered average size at 6 inches(from what I've read anyway), but find myself very insecure thinking that I am small. I am quite thick, but fear that I should be longer. I have never had a problem pleasuri... (118 words)

He openly flirts with me in class..but he already has a gf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I started a new sociology course this year and there was a cute guy there. We got talking and we flirt and he stares at me when I'm talking. But he has started to see another girl in our group (who by the way, I get on with). I ended up telling him that I liked him and he ... (126 words)

I am crazy about her...but she has a male friend. Do I end this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - Hello I divorced some seven years ago and have had a hard time coming to terms with this as I suffered a breakdown quite soon after, in fact it has taken up until recently to really get over my ex wife. In terms of new relationships I have really found it hard to form a c... (487 words)

I like him him-even though he called me a slut

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - Hi there I need a bit of help this was this guy that I met on holiday he was a big flirt but he's in a different year to me and he has not spoke to me. he once called me a slut cause I won't listen to what he said he told me to get out of the corridor. now I have posted a ... (115 words)

It's been a couple years and I still can't move on from her. Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - Ok, my question deals with my ex-girlfriend. We started out as best friends then had a harsh breakup where she went to some jerk. I know the best thing was to just move on. Its been a couple years since we last went out and we became real good friends, but this isn't what i ... (158 words)

His ex wife won't let me meet his kids!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. Both of us are seperated, and are working on the divorces, for me it is an issue of money for an attorney and disputing over custody with my ex, while I am trying to support my self and two kids. He has had his own issu... (337 words)

She avoids looking at me sometimes...what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6925 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I have been involved with a girl at work for a few months now, and she has a live-in boyfriend. The two of them have a little girl. Some days she will openly flirt with me and look into my eyes, no problems. Yet on other days she will talk to me but does not look directly in... (219 words)

Can we work it out and get back together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6925 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago, and I want to get back together with him now. The problem is we have both had so much going on this year, and things have changed. I dont know if he would or wouldnt ever get back together with me. He says no then he says he ... (158 words)

He's interfering with my work on a thesis..due to his constant contact. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I'm an international student, currently doing my thesis. Me doing a master's degree was entirely my mom's idea and money which I very reluctantly agreed since I wanted to live my own life. I'm her first child and have always been the smart one. The pressure now is doubled since ... (303 words)

I'm 12 and I hardly get to see my gf anymore. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - im 12 and i hardly ever get to see her anymore and when i do rarly see her i can hardly talk even though shes my gf what do i do... (31 words)

He's my landlord, he's married and he's 30 years older that me-but I had sex with him...now he's ignoring me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - i had sex with a married older man, try 30 years older and he's my landlord, now it seems like he's pulling away from me. he was supossed to call on saturday and well now it's monday. i called him today twice one time i left a message about he needed to fix the sink, the first ... (256 words)

Do I stay with my wonderful guy or go back to my ex-husband...who treated me and the kids badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years. We are know in the process of getting divorced and i have sinced moved on with a wonderful man.It has been 9 months since me and my husband have been together .well my question is i think i might want to get back with him. I believe ... (172 words)

He got a suspicious phone call from his ex at 4 am- do you think I'm making a huge deal over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I was at my b/f's the other night and his ex called at 4am she was crying ...i pretended i was sleeping and he kept telling her he had to go when i got up he finally hung up on her...am i making a huge deal over nothing? or do you think it is something?... (55 words)