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writes: hii met someone online, 5 years ago but that time we couldnt meet cuss he wasnt ready for a true relation yet. so he moved on and met his gf, but we carried on chatting as friends.but i also had a bf but we broke up. when we were chatting he told me too that he broke up with her. we confessed that we like eachother and we agreed to return back and continue our story but we didnt meet yet.iam afraid that he would return back to his gf cus he admitted to me that he loved her truely but she left him cus of moneywhat shall i do? would a guy return to his ex if she dumped him?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Dearie, i think u arent really sure of things with this guy. First u seem a bit uncertain if he will be able to stay with u or go back to his ex because he indicated that he still loves her which i wont be comfortable with if i was in your shoes.Second, u havent actually met this guy in person and i noticed from your posting that this is abit of concern to u which should be.My own advise here is that the first thing u guys should do if u really like each other is arrange to meet. five years is a long time to established a friendship and not see. By meeting u will be able to know how u really feel about each other cos u will be meeting live in person.After meeting, if there is an attraction there then u can decide what u want. if u are looking for something serious which i assume u are unless u wont be concerned about his ex, would advise u to tell him how concerned u are about him still have a feelings for her. Take things really slow here so u dont get hurt until u r sure he is over her. i wouldnt rush into a relationship with someone who claims he still have feelings for his ex because yes he might wish to go back to her if they sort out their problems even if she was the one that dumped him. Good luck dear.
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
I dont think he's sure enough of you to commit and I think this could make you very unhappy in the long run. If he was telling the truth about not being ready to commit then how come he met and fell in love with this girl afterwards.
I would be brave and tell him that you are finding things confusing and say that you would like to start a relationship with him slowly and see how it goes. If he doesn't want to then keep him as a friend and don't allow yourself to daydream about what might have been. Don't let him mess you about and good luck
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