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writes: I have know this girl for nearly 2 years. At first it was just a really close friendship but after a while i wanted more than that. I got feelings for her that i have never had for anybody else before. When i first told her about these feelings she seemed happy. She said she wants to get with me but at the moment it just seems to uncomfortable. First of all she said that because our friendship was so strong she didnt want to ruin that. Then she started saying that i didnt really consider her as a friend and that i only wanted to be with her cause there was nobody else around. I spoke to her about this and eased her mind a bit.When i told her that i want to kiss her so much she said that it would not feel right at this moment but last week we went for a couple of drinks (Not Drunk) and then she stayed at mine afterwards. Although we didnt have sex we still got very close and kissed a lot. While we where laying there she said that it felt right but we still are not together. When i asked her about us getting together she just said that it will happen soon but she needs to sort a few things out first.A couple of weeks ago i could of got with some1 else and because of some other circumstances i was gonna. This made her really upset and pissed of and i decided not get with the other person,It doesnt bother me waiting around for her to get with me but its confusing me to wether she really wants to be with me or not.Please Help.PT, 21, Cambridge
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reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):
 You've known her for 2 years as a friend, and you've had 2 years to evaluate and contemplate how you feel for her. Give her time to catch up. If she does want a relationship with you, it's better that it's entered into thoughfully and for the right reasons.
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