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writes: I'm 19 and I've became good friends with a girl who is 15. I know she fancies me. I really like her back and we have so much in common. We are perfect for each other. The only thing is the age difference is holding me back from asking her out. I'm worried what other people will think. Maybe they will think I'm a sex-crazed adult looking for a minor.. I dunno. I'm still a virgin and I can guarantee she's had more experience sexually than me... girls my age don't go for me because I only look about 16/17. Just wanted some outside opinions on the matter.
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reader, mystify +, writes (4 January 2006):
 i wouldnt worry if you look younger than you are one day you will be happy for it , personnally i am a girl of 26 and i have always gone for younger looking men, im with a 19 year old and there are many girls and women like me,
you are right to be worried how it would look wait till she is older before developing the relationship any further.
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reader, ferraro-lisa +, writes (1 January 2006):
you have nothing to worry about my boyfriend in 19 and im 15 for a matter of fact and at first yeah we had the name calling and now 7 months later we are fine and nothing wrong is happened. its just like we are the same age we act as a real couple and we fight like one to. the only problem would be the age if you let it be and also she is to young for sex. but take a chance
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reader, Sarahbum +, writes (31 December 2005):
I'm 16, boyfriend is 19 tomorrow, we started liking each other a year and 3 months ago, we've worked all this time and love each other very much. Go for it, I say.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (31 December 2005):
 Unless you are a chav, dating underage girls when you're over 18 is seriously not cool. Far more uncool than being a virgin.
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reader, pzeller +, writes (31 December 2005):
 If you were 40, then yes, people might look at you as "a sex-crazed adult looking for a minor", but 19 and 15 is not a very large age difference. You didn't say where you are at, but 15 may or may not be of legal age depending on where.
At your ages, emotional maturity something to look at. You are going through changes at these ages, and just beginning to find out who you are.
Additionally, don't feel bad if you're 19 and still a virgin. That's very normal.
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