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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been dumped but the texts from my ex keep coming!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F)

- My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks because he agreed to stay in touch. Then one day I did not reply to a text he sent me. I left it three days. Then I textd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he texted me the ... (193 words)

Am I a fool to consider forgiving my wife's infidelity, after she dated 18 other guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 30 years, 25 of them married.Three days ago, by accident, I found out my wife has been registered with 2 ''swinger'' sites in the last 6 months. She has admitted to lunchtime dates with about 18 men and sex with 6 to 8 of them. She says she ... (164 words)

My partner seems doesn't listen to me, and spends most of his time at the pub or on the computer...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - This Christmas has been terrible. Christmas day my partner just seemed to spend half the day yelling at my oldest son(he's 5) and my partner could not seem to understand that it was him and not my son who was ruining the day. My partner and I then had an argument. He said he ... (322 words)

How do I tell him that I love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Quite simply... i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months... how do i phrase to tell him i love him and in what way do i do it. I know he cares for me greatly. However in the past with guys when i've told them i love them its as if i've asked them to condemn their souls to ... (85 words)

How do I make things go back to the way they were?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hey...i just want people to tell me what they honestly think... I love my boyfriend so much (we're 26/25) and we have been together for 18 months. However over the last 2 months he hasn't made an effort to contact me...i am always the instigator, of fone calls, text chats, m... (257 words)

How can I help her with her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hey guys/girls well anyways I'm having a problem with my girlfriends parents. First of all I'd like to state that we're both 17 and seniors so we're getting ready to move up in the world. Our problem is that her parents don't like me for some sort of reason. When we first we... (249 words)

I was over my ex, until his sister told me everything he'd confided to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I don't really know where to start! My life is the worst it has been in a long time, and I feel as though there is no-one out there to help me! A few weeks before Xmas I started to get funny phone calls, anonymous/no speaking etc. Once in half an hour I got 6 calls at 3 in ... (374 words)

My mate's brother is 24 and I'm 17. Is it too much for us to overcome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I have a problem. I fancy my best mate's brother loads... He's all I can think about, day and night. Problem is he's 24, and I'm 17. Am I too young for him? Thing is, we share similar interests and when I sleep over my mate's house I fantasise about him coming ang getting me in ... (64 words)

Would it be better for me to have sex with another virgin, or with the girl who I'm in love with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

27 December 2005 (M)

- Hi, I am 16 years old and just met this wonderful girl who I am in love with. However she does not seem to feel the same way. I am still a virgin and she rather prefers a sexual relationship. I know she slept with other men before and I wished she still was a virgin. I co... (110 words)

My married guy will be with me... if I wait 16 years for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - About a month ago I started seeing a guy at work, he's 14 years older than me and married with 2 kids. I've fallen in love with him and he's in love with me, the problem is he keeps telling me he wants me to wait for him for 16 years until his kids are old enough to understand ... (146 words)

I'm 17, he's 37..I want him but he keeps pushing me away! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - oh my gos i cant belive im doin this ...... ok iv bin best friends with this guy for ages well just over a year and i can tell him every thing you no all of my girly probs and every body at first thort something was goin on just coss hes a man and im a girl and iv really fa... (237 words)

Do I try to date him now even though he is with my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I met this guy a few years ago that I thought was totally annoying and I blew him off. Two years later he started dating my friend and we've started talking again but on a hi/bye basis. Until last week when we started talking on line and bumping into each other everywhere we ... (98 words)

My husband has a married female friend and I find their friendship too excessive. What should I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Husband had female friend - is she after him? My husband of five years has a female friend (she is married also) that he met at his new job. We recently moved to a new area and he says she is his only friend. They talk at least once a day, calling each other on their c... (398 words)

Why does he say I should be grateful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hi, When I have a grievance against something my boyfriend has done or said, he'll say 'you could have it worse, you know. You could be with someone that lies to you and cheats on you.' He'll say that to just about anything I complain about. I'm not just picking ran... (105 words)

Should I ignore the fact that he's racist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hello There is this guy I know and I am beginning to really like him. We talk all the time and he's intelligent, funny and has shown interest in me. He has even made hints that he would want to go out with me. Well, here is the problem. The other day we were talking when he ... (158 words)

I interfered in my best friend's life..now she doesn't trust me! Help-what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hey...i don't know whats wrong with me? Sorry i think this is going to be a long one!.... My friend and i have been 'best' friends since we started high school, basically 5 years. Out of the two of us i have always gotten the most attention from people whether it be guys or ... (359 words)

I like this guy..I have urges for him what should i do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - i like this guy and i have urges for him what should i do ? ... (33 words)

I didn't think he could love me the way I loved him..so we broke up. I want to be with him again but he wants more time and space.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - hey so i love this boy and we have unknowingly liked each other for over a year.anyway,we went out for like one week months ago and we broke up cus we were both traveling with jobs in the summer. we got back 2 gether when school started again and i broke up with him after like ... (202 words)

I have pre-wedding jitters..is this normal or is there more to it because I met up with an old gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6885 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I am engaged to be married and am due to get married in about 3 months. I care deeply for the girl I am going to marry and we have built a great life together and I miss her over the few days of christmas that we are apart. She is an attractive girl and we have a healthy sex ... (234 words)

We have a great sex life but is it normal for him to watch his porn everyday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6835 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. About a month ago we decided he would move in with me. We have a great sex life. We have sex almost every night and we talk and always try new things. I see nothing wrong with it. Recently I discovered something strange. ... (220 words)

I want her back...so how do I show her how much I love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend has just ended our relationship because she says she dosn't love me like she should. how can i show her how much i love her and that we belong together. i want her back but dont know what to do. ... (42 words)

Did I mess up by telling him I loved him...he didn't respond and I feel awkward now. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I think I screwed up big time. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. I said the big 3 words, "I love you". I regretted it as soon as I said it. His response was "I really like you a lot". He held me why I cried myself to sleep. He told me that he ... (135 words)

She has a bad reputation...if I date her, what will happen to my reputation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - My friends, people i see, have talked bad about this girl im talking to, behind closed doors. Most things they have said were hurtful and have gave her a bad rep but really she didnt deserve one. She didnt do most of these bad things people said but if i was to make her my ... (86 words)

He dumps me but then keeps on texting me-I've ignored his messages. Why does he keep doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (F)

- My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks. Then one day I did not reply to a tx he sent me. I left it three days. Then I txtd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he textd me the next day to ask if I was ignoring him! ... (106 words)

I love her with all my heart..but is she worth getting hurt over ...a third time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and i still love her with all my heart and soul! she hurt me many times and that never changed how i felt about her like, when she got high with her ex (nothing happend) and she lied to me about being good, i forgave her and moved on but i want ... (248 words)

Who do I choose...the ex bf and hope he changes? Or the friend who's always been there for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hi. I'm abit confused. Broke up with my ex one month ago. He said he wasnt ready to commit and we have been on for five years. I'm 33 and at that stage in my life when i wish to settle down with a family. He is also very difficult to please, and all the decisions in the ... (299 words)

I can't get over her..I still love her even after 1 year with no contact. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 22 year old guy in college, and I really need help.. I don't know what to do, I feel trapped in the situation that I am in, and I don't see any way out of it without getting more hurt than I already am. I am desperate for help... Three years ago, I c... (905 words)

My fiancee cheated on me. How do I gain back the trust and intimacy with him again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I just found out that my fiance cheated on me. I don't know how to trust him again and I don't know how to be intimate again. He says that it was her first time but I'm afraid of catching something, I'm not in the best of health. I want to be with him. I love him. The incident ... (101 words)

He gave me a ring...now he wants us to become sexual and have a baby. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I am a sophmore and am really in love with a guy. He is older then me by 6 years but we have been dating for over a year. We are really close and can communicate by looking at each other eyes. He got me a ring for christmas, and is ready to take it to the next level.He wants to ... (72 words)

I am quite shy and want to suggest having sex with my bf but don't know how...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I am shy to my bf that i want to have a sex date? what would i do?... (18 words)

I'm hurt that my 5-year-old is calling my husband's new wife "Mom"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My ex-husband recently got married and my 5 year old daughter called her "Mom" the other day. This hurts my feelings and besides the fact that I don't like this at all. I've already told my daughter that I'm her mother and that it hurts my feelings when she calls her Mom. I k... (194 words)

Shouldn't I be ready to make this girl my girlfriend? How do I know it's the right step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I like her, I enjoy her company, sex is great, I care for her. Then why in the world haven't I made her my girlfriend? I have never had a serious girlfriend and I'm a womanizer. How do i know if I like her enough? Is it just attraction? Being used to each other? I'm confused... (72 words)

She's 16, I'm 14 and we almost had sex. She wants to see me again..I love her but I dont know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hi People, I hope you can help me my problem is as follows,; I have just had a boxing day party and this girl was there, she was 16 and i am 13 almost 14, we got chattin and found a few things in common, after a few hours we ended up just lying on my bed talking then suddenly... (330 words)

I want a baby..how do I change my fiancee's mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I want to have a baby, but my fiancee doesnt.What can I do to make him change his mind? Its stressing me out a whole lot and im feeling unhappy and depress @ times ... (34 words)

I haven't changed, but the absence of sex makes me think I've become totally repulsive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Heya.... I'm just feeling a tad insecure. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We have had an amazing sexual relationship since we started having sex..erm about 10 months, until recently. For the last 5 times of attempting to have sex he hasn't been able to get an erection... (252 words)

Afraid my grandmother won't like my bf, when he comes here for the holidays.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6904 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend said that he would like to come over for the holidays and spend the night. so i talked it over with my grandmother and she said how about instead of you driving the porsh, how about i just pick you both up? but i am scared that she won't like him. what do i do?... (57 words)