A
female
 ,
*reacle
writes:There is this man i have been friendly with for the best part of a year. Though we have never specifically met up alone. when we see each other he will be as friendly as ever, even giving me a touch on the shoulder or back whenever i've seen him recently and calling me sweetheart whenever i see him.He did turn round and winked at me last week just the first time he ever did that.He has always flirted and teased me for as long as i've known him.i guess we are acquaintances rather than friends as we've never purposedly met up alone.but he wears a wedding ring. What does he want?
View related questions:
flirt, wedding Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): He doesnt want anything you don't want to give him. He'll take anything he can get. He wins and you lose. I played the winking man with a wedding ring on game. His chest grew big as he told his friends that I called him, got out of bed to go get his breakfast and bring it to his job for him and danced and accomodated him when at the night club. All I got was women jealous of me, and not speak to me because I got so much of his attention in public settings. I did not hear from him after the club unless I called him. He made lots of promises about us going out and/or otherwise getting together and none of it happened.
A
female
reader, StarNews +, writes (30 December 2005):
 He wants sex. He is not looking for a relationship, he is a player of the worst kind because he is married, and I feel sorry for his wife. He is testing you to see your reactions, and I guarantee you are not the only one. I agree with Rebecca about the warning that should be tattooed on his forehead, but I think it should be more of a red flashing sign drilled into his head that says "LOSER!"
...............................
A
reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (30 December 2005):
 If he wears a wedding ring, sex without strings would be my first guess.
Perhaps what you need to do is consider his wedding band as a warning that should be printed on his forehead: "I am married so avoid me if I am flirtatious as I'm not to be trusted!"
Continue to treat him as an aquaintance and nothing more. I'm sure you don't want broken hearts all the way round and he will soon get the message.
...............................
A
female
reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
He is a married man who likes the attention of someone who isn't his wife. Maybe he's enjoying a bit of safe flirting or maybe he isn't faithful to his wife. Either way then I'd steer clear. It's you and his wife who will get hurt most
...............................
|
