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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just want a quiet drink at the pub, but my fella wants to talk off the ear of the barmaid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 December 2005 (F)

- Hi there, Can anyone help me with this problem? I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. The trouble is that whenever we go out for a drink he always strikes up a long conversation with the barmaid and it could be in any pub. Now don’t get me wrong; I don’t expect him... (185 words)

I'm 37 years old and worried I will never meet the right person. Any good advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of 9 years about 6 months ago. Since then I got involved with someone I have known for over 7 years, but ended up getting hurt badly after 4 months. I am 37 years old and worried that I am never going to meet the right person. In the last 3 re... (103 words)

He has another gf and won't make a decison between her and I.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I have got involved with my best friend, but he is also seeing someone else. They have been seeing each other for over 3 years, but they lives miles apart and only see each other on holiday, snatched days etc because she lives with her partner. It has come to crunch point ... (205 words)

How do I get my bf off... without having intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend(whom I love very much). We don't want to have sex, we're both virgins. I want to make him horny and I want him to "return the favor" but I don't know what to do. When we get really into it, he gets really hard and can't keep his hands ... (95 words)

He hits me..he controls me.. so why do I beg him to stay with me when he threatens to leave? Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Im 19, having a bf for nearly 5 months now. Although I wouldn't consider it a very long relationship, I have seriously fell for him like I have never before. Overall, he is a person who treats me nicely once we meet. However, once I leave for home and we start talking on the ... (260 words)

I met another guy..how do I split up with my current bf peacefully, with no hassles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi everyone. i dont really know what to do. i am 22 and i am in a relationship of 5 years and have cheated on my boyfriend. i have never done this before. a new guy started at work and we both knew we had chemistry straight away. so there was harmless flirting but the tension ... (171 words)

The signs are all there...but do you think he really fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (?) - Hello, i wonder if you can help me. I really, really like this guy who i have known for almost two years now, we both have the same group of friends whom we go out drinking with at the weekends and meet up with alot of the time but recently i have been thinking about him an ... (296 words)

Previous attempts at intercourse hurt a lot...is there something wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - i am 17 years old, the first time i tried sex was when i was 15 years old, though the guy got in me, it hurt very much , but i new that would happen any way, it wasnt a good experience at all, i thought it could only get better. again in the may i tried it again with someone ... (180 words)

He seems too busy to return my messages...should I just wait for him to contact me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi i like this guy a loooot....i met him with my friends at a club...he made the move actually ...then he invited us over to his place...i didnt show much interest then ....now i want him badly he is a very busy guy ....really really busy ...is that the reason why he is... (86 words)

I'm upset! My partner prefers to celebrate his 50th birthday with his friends...not me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - My partner will be 50 in april. he wants to spend a weekend with his friends (male) either in prague, valencia, barcelona, etc. Mainly the evenings will be boozy, with sight seeing during the day. He went away recently on a stag weekend and did a similar thing and enjoyed it, ... (205 words)

How do I make my partner feel more secure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - How do I make my partner feel more secure about our future? She has had past relationships, and has had a child with one. She knows that this is my first serious relationship and she feels insecure. She has told me that she is afraid that she is taking a big risk with me and ... (118 words)

Is he just playing with me or is he sincere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I feel like i've been dumped twice and i feel very low. Problem A and B below... A) Three weeks ago my boyfriend, who i was very serious about and loved very much dumped me. (I asked for help about that in late November on the site). Really the relationship wasnt worki... (330 words)

Is there any way I can have a bigger penis??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - This may sound dumb but, my girlfriend has had sex with alot of guys (like 30) this dosen't bother me that much (well it does but I'll deal) She had a couple guys with huge penis's like 10 inchers I have a 7incher and want a bigger one has anything worked for anyone? I know ... (67 words)

We were seeing the same man and now she won't leave us alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi i hope someone can help. me and "shell" were friends in school, not major friends, just mixed with the same people. we both left school about 8 years ago, i left to go to uni and she got a local job. wed bump into eachother and have always been friendly if we see each... (366 words)

She can't have an orgasm...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and have had alot of sex at first it was great but now were getting frustrated. I used to beable to get her off quickly but we switched to anal sex for awhile, now she cant get off in her vagina. We go at it for hours and I go ... (122 words)

All I want for Xmas is... My partner not *only* to have bought me sex-toys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi, ok ive been with my partner now for 3 months and the sex is great! christmas is coming, as we all know. we have a very honest relationship and he went shopping with one of his male mates, who also has a gf, and they went to a popular sex shop to buy prezzies. he hasnt to... (140 words)

I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Hi.Im in love with one of my best guy friend and i can't just let it go..........its been a long time that ive got feeling for him.Hes 24 and Im 19.I cant stop thinking about him.even i dream about him when i go to sleep........ alot of my friends believe that i should tell ... (73 words)

An innocent enough comment... but was there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - A co-worker and I were having a normal conversation the other day about the teamwork. After he said ".... others like you, and I like you", he quickly looked down. Then there was a pause for a few seconds. Was I too sensitive? ... (44 words)

I've suckled on a nipple but never had sex. People say I send out a "non-sexual vibe"... What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - I'm an incredibly frustrated 24-year-old virgin who's never even had a girlfriend (the farthest I've gotten dating wise was going out with this one girl for a couple of weeks at the start of this year ... I've made out with a lot of girls, and got as far as sucking on one ... (211 words)

I have two special guys...which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Hi There, I have a b/f who lives in another town, I have known him for a couple of years and We have been seeing each other for 6 mths. He is a really nice guy and i love him...but here's the problem he is incredibly busy, i hardly ever see him and when i do we never stay... (197 words)

How do I make my girlfriend go crazy, sex-wise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - Hey, Ive been going out with a girl for a while, and we fool around a bit, we dont want to have sex and probably wont. I generally have no problems giving her an orgasm, but i would like to now how to really make her crazy, ie how do i stimulate the ciltorus and what els... (104 words)

Are my boyfriend's crazy problems down to his drug-habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - My live-in boyfriend doesn't seem to care much at all about having sex with me. However, he DOES like to partake in coke or meth and demand that I give him oral sex for 16 to 72 hours straight! He's a messed up freak and I plan on dumping him anyway, but I still want to know ... (237 words)

He gave me a sexually transmitted disease..twice! Why do I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a 22 yr old man for 7 months now and think i may have fell for him. i had known from the beginning that he was still living with the mother of his child but it was not till 6 weeks later that he told me him and her were 'still meant to be together' ... (416 words)

Fooled around with my ex-boyfriend the other night... Now unsure what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I fooled around the other night. He asked me if that ment we were beck together, I said not to put that on me. Told him he knew how I felt (wanted to get back together.) He then said he'd give me another chance, but said he wasnt sure. I dont know whats ... (157 words)

I'm shy, 28, and never had a relationship with a girl... How can I work up the courage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - Hi am a 28 year old who has never had a relationship with woman of any kind. Ive seen a girl that I really like but am too shy to approch her i find it really difficult to approch girls is there something wrong with me. I see guys younger than me going up to girls and speaking ... (86 words)

Will my messed-up boyfriend *always* be negtive to my teen daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - My bf (43) does not get along with my teen (17). He is very negative to and about her. We live in seperate homes and we been dating 3.5 years. He has no children or contact with other teens or children. My teen hates him for what I believe to be good reason. He has done some... (374 words)